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Mole on back?

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DetectivePotato · 18/09/2010 19:35

I have recently found a mole on my back that wasn't there before. I have quite a few moles including a few that are raised. I do hate them. This one is flat and rough but it suddenly seems to have appeared from nowhere. It isn't itchy or anything. DH says it doesn't look red. Shall I bother going to the docs about it or just leave it?

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SayItWithWine · 18/09/2010 21:13

Is it where the sun has got at the skin? Personally as malignant melanoma is so deadly I would get it checked.

DetectivePotato · 18/09/2010 22:52

It could be but I haven't really been out in the sun this year. Just freaked me out a bit as I had never seen it, then there it was. All my others started out flat then grew into raised ones (which I really hate).

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SayItWithWine · 19/09/2010 12:17

Any sun exposure, especially as children is not good. I'd get it looked at if I were you Detective.

Flighttattendant · 19/09/2010 12:20

Yes you should go and ask for a referral...better off than on I think.

JudyPink · 19/09/2010 13:42

Me and DP went to the doctors on Friday about his moles - he is absolutely covered. We're both very very fair so we don't tend to go out in the sun, and when we do, we have factor 40+ on. The doctor was not concerned about any of the ones that I was sickeningly worried about but has referred him to the Skin Clinic (UCL) for a check up on them properly. It's definitely better to be safe than sorry - there's a couple I think he should get removed tbh, if your new mole is as worrying, you could maybe ask for it to be removed? At least request a referral - you should get them checked, properly, regularly, I think!

bubblagirl · 19/09/2010 13:51

i would get any checked i have one thats been there years had it checked previously was told all ok but im going again just for peace of mind as my mum is not a sun worshipper stays out of it as much as possible and just had cancerous mole removed so im not taking any chances im going to get second opinion i know its not new mole but my mums has made me want to check again

DetectivePotato · 19/09/2010 19:23

Yeah I will go. It has been playing on my mind for a while about my moles and one of my friends said recently that she had a cancerous mole removed a few years ago.

I would prefer to have the all removed. Would they do that for no reason?

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JudyPink · 19/09/2010 21:40

It might be a case of them testing it... and giving their own judgement. But I don't see why you couldn't ask for it to be removed? Say it's causing you an amount of stress and worry - which in effect can implement other health issues in itself! Not sure where you are in the world DetectivePotato , but we're in London and the doctor said it might be a while before DP get's his referral letter as the Skin Clinic is the busiest of all departments... So good luck with it and let us know how you get on!

aliasdictus · 19/09/2010 23:29

Oh come on, lets be a little bit sensible about this. Melanomas are not the 'most deadly', there are about 10,000 cases a year but only 2000 deaths, half of these are in the over 70s. Survival rates are amongst the highest for any cancer and over 90% women survive beyond 5 years.
Fortunately for the rest of us, you are NOT entitled to a referral, your GP will decide if it is necessary. The trouble is that skin clinics are full to the brim with people convinced by their friends and the media that they have significant and deadly moles. Just get a grip.

If you want something to obsess about consider the really likely causes of death like bowel cancer 40,000 pa, heart attacks 100,000 pa, strokes 75,000 pa. Need I go on?

DetectivePotato · 19/09/2010 23:43

Hmm to alias

There is no need to be rude. "Get a grip" Hmm

I was simply asking if it was worth getting checked out. I never said it was the most deadly, that was someone else.

I didn't say "oh my god, a mole, I have cancer" did I?

"Fortunately for the rest of us, you are NOT entitled to a referral" and that is fortunate for you because....?

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Hazeyjane · 19/09/2010 23:49

aliasdictus, that has to be one of the most insensitive and unecessary posts I have seen on mumsnet!

far better to go to your gp and get it checked out, for peace of mind (as opposed to just 'get(ting) a grip')

Hazeyjane · 19/09/2010 23:54

Also, it is great that survival rates are so high, but cancer treatment is horrible, and not something I would wish on anyone. Surely the sooner a mole is checked out, and removed, the less chance there is of having to go through chemo/radiotherapy.

Flighttattendant · 20/09/2010 06:59

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Flighttattendant · 20/09/2010 07:01

DP - they probably won't take them all off, but having a lot you are considered at a slightly increased risk of melanoma, so it is wise to get them all looked at when you go and see the dermatologist.

You should get a referral as it is a new mole. No one can tell if it is dodgy just by looking at it, not even a derm.

It's unlikely to be melanoma but it is on the increase and it were found to be then it would want removing sooner rather than later.

Good luck, let us know how you get on.

Flighttattendant · 20/09/2010 07:24

I apologise for my knee jerk reaction; much of what AD wrote is not bullshit, despite the method of delivery, but she does not give the full picture.

aliasdictus Sun 19-Sep-10 23:29:02
'Oh come on, lets be a little bit sensible about this. Melanomas are not the 'most deadly', there are about 10,000 cases a year but only 2000 deaths, half of these are in the over 70s.'

No, more than half are younger than 70.

'Survival rates are amongst the highest for any cancer and over 90% women survive beyond 5 years'.

This would include those diagnosed at a very early stage. Unfortunately with melanoma as soon as it is deep enough to invade the vascular or lymphatic system, ie about a millimetre deep, it's highly likely to recur and chances of survival go way down.

'Fortunately for the rest of us, you are NOT entitled to a referral, your GP will decide if it is necessary. The trouble is that skin clinics are full to the brim with people convinced by their friends and the media that they have significant and deadly moles. Just get a grip.'

Apart from your abhorrent attitude and extreme rudeness, you seem to imply that a GP is able to diagnose melanoma instantly. Dermatologists get it wrong all the time let alone GPs; the only way to be certain is through biopsy. So it is prudent for anything vaguely suspicious to be referred immediately. My father recently had a 2 week referral for a similar problem; the gP had no idea if it was serious and in fact doubted it was but there is a protocol and it was followed.

Further, my 34 year old best friend died in March, 9 months out from diagnosis with melanoma, which was misdiagnosed by her GP for a YEAR before she was referred.

'If you want something to obsess about consider the really likely causes of death like bowel cancer 40,000 pa, heart attacks 100,000 pa, strokes 75,000 pa. Need I go on?'

Yes but the OP has a MOLE she is concerned about. Are you saying that she's stupid to be worried about it, because she's more likely to die from a different sort of cancer to melanoma?
She's not 'obsessing' either.

Each year more than 2,500* people die from skin cancer in the UK.
Most skin cancer deaths, almost 2,000* each year, are from malignant melanoma.
The majority of non-melanoma skin cancer deaths are in elderly people.
More than half of all people that die from malignant melanoma are younger than 70.
Worldwide, around 46,000 people died from malignant melanoma in 2008.

There are two main types of skin cancer: non-melanoma skin cancer, which is very common, and malignant melanoma which is less common but more serious.

More than 10,300* cases of malignant melanoma are diagnosed in the UK every year.
Malignant melanoma incidence rates in Britain have more than quadrupled over the last thirty years.
Like most cancers, skin cancer is more common with increasing age, but malignant melanoma is disproportionately high in younger people.
Almost one third of all cases of malignant melanoma occur in people under 50.
Malignant melanoma is the second most common cancer in young adults (aged 15-34) in the UK.
Malignant melanoma is almost twice as common in young women (up to age 34) as in young men, but more men die from it.
Over the last twenty-five years, rates of malignant melanoma in Britain have risen faster than any other common cancer.
If current trends continue, it is anticipated that there will be around 15,500 cases of malignant melanoma diagnosed per year within the next 15 years.

DetectivePotato · 20/09/2010 10:42

Thanks Flight and Hazey. Glad it wasn't just me who thought Alias' post was absurd.

And forgive me, but having know 4 women in their twenties who have had different cancers in the last couple of years, I am making sure that I take nothing for granted.

Ok, I don't actually think for a minute that I have cancer. But it is better to be safe than sorry, surely?

Going to ring the doc now, had forgotten until I saw the thread again.

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Flighttattendant · 20/09/2010 12:24

Definitely better to be safe.

Good luck. Hopefully it's nothing to worry about.

I really cannot understand what POV Alias was even coming from to care whether you had it checked out or not...really, really odd!

Flighttattendant · 20/09/2010 12:26

My God - just checked her profile. She's a consultant.

in what I don't know but please never let her be mine, especially if I am actually worried about something..

GeekOfTheWeek · 20/09/2010 12:31

Get it checked.

Dh and I pay to have all of ours checked by the mole clinic. Maybe this would put your mind at ease for the other ones?

DetectivePotato · 20/09/2010 19:33

Appointment is on Thursday.

Thank fuck Alias isn't my consultant. I would be requesting someone else with a manner like that!

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