Strix,
have finally got a minute to reply a bit more in depth.
I know you said there was ASD in oyur wider family - are there any other auto-immune diseases, like diabetes, Chrohn's, coeliac disease, etc?
That would raise red flags for me - and lead me to be cautious when it comes to jabs.
imo, it is not just the mercury withdrawal form a jab that makes it safer. and I don't like the way the 5in1 was rushed through - essentially with no reasonable length safety trial.
there is a lot written about the vaccine load in infancy. and I am aware that a lot of people will now come along and say "oh, but the human body can cope with 6 hundred million trillion microbes" etc etc. but the load worries me.
as I said before, dd2 is unvaccinated, completely. I couldn't risk baby jabs for her, and wanted to postpone until she was older. as she got older, it became apparent that she has a very similar gut profile to dd1, and she is intolerant to gluten and dairy. as she got older still, there was enough dodgy stuff going on to wonder about mitochondrial dysfunction with her, and so she remains unvaccinated.
I believe dd1 was damaged by vaccines, but not by the mmr. it is not only the mmr that can lead to some of the reactions that cause concern.
you should be aware that the single mumps vaccine is no longer available, afaik. severe shortages, and clinics cannot guarantee when stocks will return. which might be a deciding factor for you.
as for whoever asked how I rely on herd immunity? my answer is, I don't. I do not sit here all nice and relaxed, content to think that dd2 is "safe" because others have vax'd their children. partly becasue I think the efficacy rate of the jabs are highly overstated in many cases.
if dd2 contracts something that she cuold have been vax'd against? well, then she does, and we will cope. the risk factors were (and are) too high for her to have any jabs. imo, better for her to take her chances (and I do not mean that as callously as it sounds - we are very vigilant, as of course some of the illnesses can have serious complications) than face the almost certainty of her being severely affected by the jabs (given what we now know about her digestive state, and possible mitochondrial dysfunction)