My mums dad died last year and was heartbreaking as he was like a father to me and it got me thinking about my dads dad. He divorced and left my grandmother when my father was 2 years old and left for south africa, i know his name and date of birth but thats all my grandmother will tell me. Id love to know if hes still alive and if hes well but i dont know where to start. I dont know when or where they were married but i know the year he left. My dad wont help as he said hed rather not know after all these years. What can i do? I dont want to pay a fortune looking as money is tight and i have 3 young children.