Narcissistic mother

[Wardenmammy]

Anyone dealing with a narcissist of a mother? I've spent years giving mine chance after chance but I've finally had it and I'm going zero contact.

She's pulling every trick she can, trying to punish me, guilt trip me and now pretending our fallout didn't happen 😂 she really is textbook

My sympathies OP - we are currently dealing with the fallout from narc MIL. I think DH has accepted she just isn’t ever going to change. What prompted your no contact?

Hoping someone will come along with some experienced advice!

Years of physical and mental abuse finally caught up to me! I'd made rules very clear recently that we would only see her if she was well because of covid - she saw this as ya punishing her when actually I'm just ensuring that we're all safe. Especially as I have a toddler and I'm pregnant again. It was the final straw.

Sorry to hear about you MIL - what has made your DH realise she won't change?

I have been divorced for a good few years now and still have major issues like false accusations to the police stopping me seing my boys you name it she has done it.
Now that they are older and able to say what they want the tide is turning as they love and want to live with me as mum leaves them home alone during he day and night to either go to work and or go out drinking. (my boys are 8 and 11)
They have now been walking home alone 1mile major roads and canals and it takes them about 40 mins.
My question is is this legal (UK) Ive just informed social services and the school .
My main point is this "What if something happens" how would I and also maybe there brother do or feel I wont mention mum as she has no feelings
Sorry for the rant but the worst thing is I live 5 miles away and can collect them if and when she cant - Is this just me that sees this as wrong?
appologies if this is in the wrong thread but new to this thanks

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