If you have read my previous question I have come into contact with my grandparents who didn't know that I existed.
I have been in regular contact with them since July 2019. There's been loads of warm emails, a few phone calls and they even sent me a gift for XMas. I wasn't expecting that.
This year I am considering visiting. My mother and a few other relatives live in the same area as they do so I might as well pop in and say hello. It does require an international flight though as I have moved abroad.
Ever since I told them that I might be visiting their warm emails have turned into one-liners and there appears to be a lot of silence.
It's really upsetting me! They said in the past over the phone that they wanted to meet so I don't get what's going on.
They are 85 years old so I feel that time is of the essence but they are doing great for their age. I plan to visit in either May or October so it's not like I'm going to show up tomorrow.