Mandy2016123 · 10/10/2016 18:03
Hi me and my hubby want to get a place together by my parents don't like the idear I got called names like fat but I've just had a baby I feel like they don't like me so I've decided to move out with my hubby cause I want my son to have a good life. Do u think I'm doing the right thing has anyone in this situation where they are not sure what to do so you think I'm doing the right thing in moving out.?
IminaPickle · 10/10/2016 22:07
Are you living with your parents and husband now? Culturally would you be expected to live with your parents? They don't sound very nice.
TrollTheRespawnJeremy · 10/10/2016 22:08
Hi Mandy, you might want to post this in chat as this board is about tracing your genealogy.
If your parents aren't nice to you then you should do what makes you happy. Maybe speak to your GP if you're having any issues with anxiety or if you are worried about your weight and hopefully they can set your mind at rest.
KindDogsTail · 10/10/2016 22:21
Mandy, I am sorry you are having a difficult time with your parents.
It is not kind to tell you you are fat. You have just had a baby.
I you and your husband would like to live together alone with your baby, there would be nothing wrong in that, and that is what a lot of people do.
Have you found somewhere you would like, where you and your husband would be happy? If you move out together, would you have the help and companionship of other friends and neighbours nearby? Could you live near a safe park with a playing area for children, and near shops and so on?
Of course you would be doing the right thing, if you can find a good place and you can afford it.
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