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Genealogy

Contacting living but v. distant relatives

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IAmSheWhoMustBeObeyed · 17/03/2013 12:54

hi, I have one branch of my tree back to Germany through my 3xgreat grandfather. The name is very rare and therefore anyone of that name will be a connection albeit from over 150 years ago. Is there any point in contacting a German stranger found ont internet. I have a compulsion to do so but not sure what it would achieve. I suppose if someone contacted me I would be interested and share info on ancestors but..........would it be weird?

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LunaticFringe · 17/03/2013 12:58

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IAmSheWhoMustBeObeyed · 17/03/2013 19:51

Nope. So will leave it I guess.

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MusicalEndorphins · 21/03/2013 03:25

Then again, what have you got to loose?
Here is some advise.

I think a written letter would be better than an e-mail if you have the mailing address. Include a stamped, self addressed envelope. Good luck should you decide to go ahead after all.

MusicalEndorphins · 21/03/2013 03:25

*advice

IAmSheWhoMustBeObeyed · 21/03/2013 07:51

Great advice there. Thanks.

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RockinD · 24/03/2013 11:34

SAE won't work if they are in Germany. Can you still buy International Reply Coupons from the Post Office?

Someone contacted me out of the blue about 4 years ago - ended up coming over from Oz and staying with us for a week.

If you don't try, you won't know, and you could get very lucky. No reason why you shouldn't give it a go.

specialsubject · 10/06/2013 19:59

I've done this several times. It has resulted in meeting some lovely people. Twice it has resulted in no further contact. I sent both of those one more email, and then left it.

Their desire to be left in peace outweighs my thirst for knowledge.

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