My own IT skills are ok but far from good, but dd is very different. I would be useless in helping her in any way if she had a raspberry pi. We have monitor key board and mouse from an old computer but what else do you need to start off. Plus is their any good guide out their to start dd off if I where to get her a raspberry pi.
Lastly is it a good tool for child of her age. She whats to be an engineer and thought the raspberry pi look a great tool to further her education in a area if intrest to her.