After DH's death I've let the garden go.
It was something we did together and I haven't had the heart for it, plus since it got out of control I've felt overwhelmed by it.
DS (23yo) asked me this morning if he could do anything to help. I asked him to start dealing with the overgrown hedge, especially the brambles.
He's done a really good day's work and made a real difference ❤️ However, he has also hacked back a 15 yo climbing rose that DH bought me as a present , which grew over an arch and is the site of my favourite photo of the two of us.
DS said he thought it was a bramble. It was over grown and needed a good prune, but this is very extreme, almost to the ground.
Long term it will have done it good and it will come back strong and healthy, right?