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What do you regret planting in your garden?

230 replies

MyRabbit79 · 10/04/2023 14:06

Inspired by the current thread about the plants and weeds people are currently battling, what are the plants you've purposely sown or planted in your garden and come to regret?

For me, it's aquilegia and forget-me-nots.

I bought some aquilegia for our front garden when we moved here and it pops up everywhere, looks messy and I don't love the flowers

Forget-me-not - I sowed these from seed two years ago out the front. They're now everywhere including in the pots, gravel and back garden. Planning to pull most of it up after it's flowered this year.

OP posts:
RoseAndGeranium · 12/04/2023 20:27

Vinniepolis · 12/04/2023 19:58

Galium oderatum - I planted it as groundcover in a border but it has gone mad and smothers everything. Also irises - they are multiplying rapidly and just don’t seem to flower long enough to justify the space they take up. Oh - borage as well. The bees love it but I had hundreds of seedlings popping up in my lawn last year.

Borage is annoying. The fuzzy bits on the leaves make me itch ferociously.

ExtremelyDetermined · 12/04/2023 20:38

I wear gloves to pull up borage but I do love it's beautiful blue flowers, I have a patch of my allotment where it mixes with the orange California poppies and looks stunning.

MereDintofPandiculation · 12/04/2023 21:11

KeziaOAP · 12/04/2023 11:44

@minipie prune Viburnam Bodnantense now it will flower on new wood produced this year. Have variety Charles Lamont which is pruned down to 18" after flowering has lots of flowers on the new wood before leaves appear.

But prune other Viburnums after they flower.

MereDintofPandiculation · 12/04/2023 21:13

PortiasBiscuit · 12/04/2023 17:56

My friend ex husband, bloody patio has had now subsided..

Yes, they do that once the body has decayed and collapsed…

MereDintofPandiculation · 12/04/2023 21:15

piperatthegates · 12/04/2023 18:08

I have hardy geraniums absolutely everywhere in my garden (I didn't plant them I think they must have migrated from a neighbour). The roots are horrendously deep and strong, does anyone have any tips for making them a bit easier to dig up?

And everyone saying don't plant forget me not, I have a packet of seed given by my vet when my cat died and I really want to plant them in memory of her. If I plant them in a patio tub would that contain them?

Thank you

No, they spread by seed rather than runners. But they’re easy to pull out

MereDintofPandiculation · 12/04/2023 21:17

Vinniepolis · 12/04/2023 19:58

Galium oderatum - I planted it as groundcover in a border but it has gone mad and smothers everything. Also irises - they are multiplying rapidly and just don’t seem to flower long enough to justify the space they take up. Oh - borage as well. The bees love it but I had hundreds of seedlings popping up in my lawn last year.

Well, Galium odoratum is a perennial cousin of goosegrass/cleavers/sticky willy - Galium aparine

asdfgasdfg · 12/04/2023 21:51

Thanks, someone said birage has blue flowers I looked up yes I have borage,

toomanysausages · 12/04/2023 22:20

Daffodils, only one of them flowers and the others are just ugly leaves. Has been this way for 3 years... Daffodil

ErrolTheDragon · 12/04/2023 22:30

toomanysausages · 12/04/2023 22:20

Daffodils, only one of them flowers and the others are just ugly leaves. Has been this way for 3 years... Daffodil

Mine were coming up blind until I started feeding them when they're in leaf.

Agitatethebumcrack · 12/04/2023 23:38

BonnieLisbon · 12/04/2023 17:46

Spanish bluebells. I had an Aunt who tried for 25 years to get rid of them but never could. I thought if I dug really deep and wide and pulled up all the bulbs I'd get rid of them but it made no difference

25 years?!
That’s disheartening. I’m only on year 3 of digging.

BonnieLisbon · 12/04/2023 23:44

Agitatethebumcrack · 12/04/2023 23:38

25 years?!
That’s disheartening. I’m only on year 3 of digging.

Last year was my first year of digging. I got loads of bulbs out and dug quite deep. They were like potatoes. Lo and behold they still came up looking happy and healthy this year

BarrelOfOtters · 13/04/2023 06:53

@piperatthegates I like forget me nots seeding everywhere as they are useful ground cover when there’s not much else about and look good with tulips. And very easy to pull out. good for early bees too.

some hardy geraniums, like Roxanne, are easy enough to dig out. I’ve got some 8nvading from a neighbour that are tough as old boots, if I get them out young it’s ok….otherwise I smother with mulch and find tha5 softens my clay soil enough that they ge5 easier to dig up with a big garden fork….

MereDintofPandiculation · 13/04/2023 09:26

ErrolTheDragon · 12/04/2023 13:06

Surely no one ever deliberately plants any type of ground elder?!

If they didn’t, nurseries wouldn’t bother to sell it

Aegopodium 'Variegatum' - The Beth Chatto Gardens

https://www.bethchatto.co.uk/a-z/a-b/aegopodium/aegopodium-podagraria-variegatum.htm

ErrolTheDragon · 13/04/2023 09:33

I like forget me nots seeding everywhere as they are useful ground cover when there’s not much else about

I was very glad of mine in spring 2020 when I couldn't get pansies or primulas - I transplanted quite a few into areas which would otherwise have been bare, they can be moved easily. I've not got them coming back in those areas now.

toomanysausages · 13/04/2023 09:34

@ErrolTheDragon ah, worth a try, thank you! I expected a beautiful bank of daffodils so maybe next time..

steppemum · 13/04/2023 09:36

StephanieSuperpowers · 12/04/2023 18:05

Stupid lavender border. It grew, huge and ugly. Not at all like the lavender borders you see pictures of. It's miserable looking and isn't proving easy to dig out.

lavender borders only work if you prune them hard every year. But you have to be really careful not to prune into the old wood.
They take a lot more looking after than you would think

Brightredtulips · 13/04/2023 09:39

Bloody snowberry . Its a thing of the devil. It spreads everywhere, total nightmare. Rhu is a lovely tree with soft antler like branches, didn't realise it suckers....all over my lawn. Crocosmia also a feckin nightmare.

lightlypoached · 13/04/2023 09:48

I wish my neighbours hadn't planted bamboo.

It pops up in my border and you can almost see it growing.

Horrible invasive stuff. 😞

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 13/04/2023 10:11

I don't know what sort it is - and I didn't plant it - but I've got a rose that came with my garden that has thorns so big that you can't get within six feet of it. I have to prune in a suit of armour and metal gauntlets otherwise it will try to have my eye out. It has beautiful fragrant flowers through the season, but if it embeds itself in my scalp once more when I'm trying to sniff them, it's going to have to go.

Brunelofbrio · 13/04/2023 13:49

ErrolTheDragon · 12/04/2023 13:06

Surely no one ever deliberately plants any type of ground elder?!

^This! with bells on

I have heard that if you contantly remove every green part, eventually it will stop being able to photosysthesise and die... but so far no success with this method (or round up, or digging it out) doesn't help that it is still in our neighbours garden through the fence...

The current plan is to get the guinea pigs (who are keen on it) to graze it down and turn it into fertilizer... here's hoping the bastard thing can't regrow after its been digested. Although the way it is growing again I might need to adopt a whole herd of guinea pigs for this to be effective!

Agitatethebumcrack · 16/04/2023 09:56

Last weekend I had to saw down a cordyline that was over 7ft tall. Surprisingly sturdy trunk & it was very heavy.
We’ve only lived here 6 years, it wasn’t there when we moved in, it just seemed to appear overnight. I noticed a new one yesterday that’s just 5 inches tall. The garden was overgrown when we moved in so I’m assuming the previous owners planted and they’ve taken off as we’ve cleared.

I planted a cordyline in our last house and we were there 14 years, it never went above knee height so I had no idea they got so big.

Brightredtulips · 16/04/2023 13:26

I didn't plant these but I have a constant battle with:
3 cornered leek
Ground elder
Mares tail
Alkanet
Sticky willie
Couch grass
Crocosmia
Elder tree, just appeared one day and is huge.
Holly
tree ivy
I think they would all survive a nuclear explosion

GlassBunion · 17/04/2023 17:18

Thistles ... oh myGod , fecking thistles.

Last year they started growing in the lawn.
Darling Golden Retriever was rolling on the lawn.

Cue me, with scissors, hacking through his coat trying to get baby teasels out.

Yes , wildlife loves them , particularly finches but we get feck all finches!

Thistles are bastards.

KeziaOAP · 17/04/2023 18:30

I'm on a mission to dig out every bit of ground elder root in shrubbery even if takes all summer, made a start covered about two feet by 10 inches deep 🤔

userxx · 17/04/2023 19:59

Agitatethebumcrack · 16/04/2023 09:56

Last weekend I had to saw down a cordyline that was over 7ft tall. Surprisingly sturdy trunk & it was very heavy.
We’ve only lived here 6 years, it wasn’t there when we moved in, it just seemed to appear overnight. I noticed a new one yesterday that’s just 5 inches tall. The garden was overgrown when we moved in so I’m assuming the previous owners planted and they’ve taken off as we’ve cleared.

I planted a cordyline in our last house and we were there 14 years, it never went above knee height so I had no idea they got so big.

Was it a red one ? I had to hack mine down, the roots went on forever. Never again.