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Neighbors cat keeps ruining my garden

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GunnyGirl · 02/08/2021 14:35

Understanding the nature of my complaint can be double sided. However, this has been a rather frustrating issue in which I have no idea how to handle it humanly, or in a civilized manner. I have put so much time, effort and money into my front yard and garden area. Over the past year it’s been an ongoing process of planting and then replanting garden flowers, greenery, shrubs, etc. I’ve put soil and had to haul away and replace the soil again and again. Not because I wanted to, but because I have no choice. The neighbor has two cats (and one just had kittens which really is the latest gripe in my story) but the cats he has currently taking over my life are enough. I have a dog, that is confined to one side of my yard only. She has one area of the inside of my house that shes allowed to be in. Yes my pet would love nothing more than to pee and poop and wreck my garden and hang out in the front yard and, or roam about my entire house, especially when nobody’s home. But, heck no! Why because she will cause unnecessary damage or leave fur, or odor, and she’ll think she can lounge all over the furniture etc… My dog is an inside / outside dog, but we keep her contained in a specific part of both, which she knows she is only allowed in. Even if I open any gates or accessible areas, she knows not to cross the line. We once had a cat, which was my Daughters when she was around 12 years old. We found it, brought it home and cleaned her of fleas, and got it fixed and all that… The cat was her responsibility. She took the cat outside, watched over it while it played in its restricted areas, it knew to use only its liter box when relieving itself and when it hungry or thirsty it would stand right in front of its bowls and meow until someone refilled her dishes. The cat learned early on exactly what it was supposed to do and not do. Cats aren’t stupid. People, as pet owners, have a responsibility to contain and, or control their pets, albeit cats, dogs, rabbits, hamsters or whatever it is that they so choose to take in and care for. If they can not contain and, or keep their pets, cats included, under control or within their own living space, whether inside or out, then they needn’t assume the responsibility, or ownership of a pet. My opinion is, we need laws, or local ordinance in place regarding cats who roam freely, with its owners permission. There are many reasons why allowing your pets (cats in particular) to roam the neighborhood unattended, should be restricted. The idea that this is good practice is ludicrous. It’s unsafe and unhealthy for starters. Many people have this idea that it keeps the mice or virus infected rodents away… Well have you stopped to realize that this very same mice catching creature is the very thing that’s attracting the rodents, which we certainly do not want around? The scent these cats leave behind with their urine and poop, brings in unwanted critters, and mice or rats will feed off their poop. For every one or maybe two rodents your cat might catch and kill, 6-10 more he’s actually attracting into your living environment. To begin with, you wouldn’t even have the problem if your cat weren’t there alerting rodents with the scent of it’s poo or pee, smelled from many yards away. They’re attracted to it, they bring the entire rat family in droves, and create havoc all up and around your home. If there’s great hiding places with mounds of things in your yard or garage, house etc… They are going to set up camp right there. Many times people won’t realize it’s a problem until it’s a real problem. They believe stray cats or their own cats are the solution so they keep them around. But they are often the reason for these unwanted rodents, to begin with. Keep your home clean, free of clutter and unpleasant odors (cat urine in particular) and you will have less chance in a rodent infestation. But back to my original purpose on this cat topic. Is it fare for me to constantly clean out cat poo from my yard and garden? Is it right for the neighbors cat to come over to my yard daily, often twice daily to use my flower box as its personal toilet? Is it my responsibility to constantly buy cat deterrent products, new plants and flowers, or more soil because the neighbors cat is allowed outside to do it’s business regularly, because it’s owner rather not deal with its poo or pee? Rather he can’t afford it, or he doesn’t want to smell it in or around their own home, is not anybody’s problem but his. If his cat likes the outdoors then build a outdoor habitat for your cats, and keep them safe and healthy from an open and unmonitored environment. Isnt it out job as pet owners to keep them safe and healthy? How many times have we had to suddenly swerve or stop while driving down the road to avoid hitting an animal, or someone’s pet? Or how many times have we seen road kill in the road? It’s not anybody’s guess how that happened. It’s just common sense that anything could happen if a pet or animal is running around freely. Stray dogs, or wild animals are also a threat. Why does it make sense to anyone to let your cat out unattended? What’s worse, letting your cat roam freely when it hasn’t been fixed! Now your cresting more of a neighborhood problem then before. Just because your cat isn’t a nuisance for you, doesn’t mean the rest of the world shares your same feelings. Furthermore, it’s a wonder why people claim to be cat lovers or get offended when they see animal abuse or mistreatment of cats and dogs, but many of the same feel it’s a good idea to allow their cats, or cats in general to roam freely and unsupervised. Makes little sense, and I call BS, on this form of thinking. If nothing else, animal control will come pick up a cat if I call, and they will put it to sleep for good if it stays in their custody for a week or so. I’m tempted to use this as a resolution, if my neighbor, whom we otherwise get along with in simple terms. But after addressing my constant gardening issues and regular expenses, solar lights they break or knock over, flowers they’re eating, peeing on and killing or turning yellow, and scat mats that I have to use to deter them and constantly move every time I work on my garden. Or the automatic sprinkler I bought but stopped using because the water was leaking too much and caused my water bill to increase in one month, or the fence we recently bought to keep them out, but need to have it installed. None of these expenses are hitting his pocket book and good luck trying to get any compensation or compassion for my dilemma brought on by his cats. I’ve addressed my concerns and my recurring costs that otherwise I would not be dealing with, if not for his cats. Why is this issue left unaddressed by city ordinances across the nation? I know I’m not alone on this issue. Nobody should have to deal with this type of nuisance, or environment unless they choose to. If I wanted a cat, or cat related expenses or destruction in, or around my house I’d own a cat. But I do not want to deal with a cat or it’s urine smell, or it’s destructive behavior, so I instead have a dog. Why am I now left to deal something that I have no interest in dealing with, what so ever? We need legal mandates, in cat ownership and caretaking restrictions, or guidelines. Otherwise more cats, more rodents, more gardening issues, more stray cats, breeding kittens and road kill, or more animal shelter costs for our local government. It makes no sense why this issue hasn’t been addressed legally, long ago. Someone please explain this to me. Sunny California, US

OP posts:
ShutUpaYourFace · 02/08/2021 17:03

So you don't like cats then?

There are lots of ways to deter cats without calling the warden and hoping the cat gets put to sleep after a week. That's just nasty!

Install your fence. You brought it so get it up. Install a decent sprinkler system that doesn't leak!
You have the solutions: use them.

You shouldn't own a dog if you don't like fur and odour. Do it a favour and take it to a shelter.

I've got a dog, he lives indoors and out, he can go wherever he pleases as he is a member of our family and surprise surprise he also deters cats!

Maybe cats don't like you so they come and crap in your garden, maybe if you let your dog roam the garden, he might just chase that cat away!

NotWanting · 02/08/2021 17:18

This muppet read all of that.

Shame on me.

pigeonhole · 02/08/2021 17:24

Easiest answer = move
( but please don't move next to me )

Generalpost · 02/08/2021 17:44

Op maybe you should rehome your dog. Let him or her live in a home where it can have more freedom it does not sound like you really like animals at all the dog can't very unhappy living in that way.

I'm not sure how well the cat proof fencing works. I think they are you keep the cat in your garden rather than out . I guess you could put it on your neighbours side (if they allow) that way the cat won't get in your garden.

What is the cat actually doing wrong? Pooping in yoir garden ? You do know it's probably not just your neighbours cat . There are probably several cats from the street/area that visit your garden its just how cats are .

ChequerBoard · 02/08/2021 18:31

@pigeonhole

Easiest answer = move ( but please don't move next to me )
Unless OP can find a sterile, animal free part of the world, moving will not help in the slightest.
GunnyGirl · 02/08/2021 18:44

Thanks I’ll keep that in mind.

OP posts:
GunnyGirl · 02/08/2021 18:46

I never experienced this issue in any house I ever owned. This is the first time I’m dealing with this sort of issue. It’s a very costly one at that.

OP posts:
GunnyGirl · 02/08/2021 19:13

I agree…
Once the fence is up, she (my dog) will be able to go into the front.
We are going to install a double barrier fence where the lawn and garden area will be sectioned off. She has a large portion of the house and yard on the side and back, she freely moves to and from, on her own.
The inside gate separates her from entering into the living rooms, dining area and kitchen…

She interacts with everyone inside but is not allowed “physically” passed a certain point.
She has her own room and her doggy doors enter the garage and another into our home, through the laundry room, and into the hall way to her room.

She can see and interact with everyone inside. She’s not deprived one bit.
She’s in our air conditioned home at her own will.

Others who visit, say she lives better than most people they know. So whoever misunderstood my wording I apologize for not explaining my frustrations in a “picture book” setting.

I have never experienced an issue like this and the frustration has become overwhelming.

If it were wild animals I’d understand, but they’re someone’s pets.
People have a responsibility to contain and properly care for their pets…
Or they shouldn’t own them. Point blank!

If that doesn’t make sense, nothing will, maybe! So Cal, US.

OP posts:
GunnyGirl · 02/08/2021 19:20

The cats are eating the plants, killing them. Knocking over my solar lights, often braking them. Urinating near porch area and when water, it reeks of cat urine.

I sift through cat poop, often haul away pounds of dirt because it’s too much to sift out. It’s the same cats, and my neighbor always comes into my driveway calling for them because he knows they are in my yard, already.

I addressed the issue several times and he laughs it off like I’m joking.

Very frustrating.

OP posts:
viques · 02/08/2021 19:51

I think you would be better off having a robot hoover than a dog. Tidies up after itself, easier to control, doesn’t shed hair, knows its place........

You could stick google eyes on it and you’d never know the difference.

WildingFae · 02/08/2021 19:57

People have a responsibility to contain and properly care for their pets…

Nope. Cats are legally free to roam.

Neighbors cat keeps ruining my garden
WildingFae · 02/08/2021 19:58

And by properly care for, do you feel that these cats are underfed, unwell or mistreated by their owner?

GintyMcGinty · 02/08/2021 20:02

You are off your head.

viques · 02/08/2021 20:07

@GunnyGirl

The cats are eating the plants, killing them. Knocking over my solar lights, often braking them. Urinating near porch area and when water, it reeks of cat urine.

I sift through cat poop, often haul away pounds of dirt because it’s too much to sift out. It’s the same cats, and my neighbor always comes into my driveway calling for them because he knows they are in my yard, already.

I addressed the issue several times and he laughs it off like I’m joking.

Very frustrating.

Are you sure these are cats? They sound more like a small herd of wildebeeste. What with the plant eating and the pounds of poo.
WildingFae · 02/08/2021 20:08

Why would you dig up cat poo anyway. Why wouldn't you just leave it in the soil?

Wolfiefan · 02/08/2021 20:10

You only allow your dog in one part of the house and one part of the garden? YABU.

SilverBirchWithout · 02/08/2021 20:21

Cats like to use freshly dug bare soil, every time you dig it over or replace with new soil it becomes more desirable as a toilet area for the cats. Firm the soil when planting, densely plant, and stop digging it over, keep it hard.

ChequerBoard · 02/08/2021 20:37

Cats are very clean creatures, they like a nice clean area. The local cats must think you very diligent at cleaning up their chosen outdoor litter trays area. Bet they come from miles around to crap in your lovely clean soil.

Utterly daft to think you can exclude roaming animals from your property. Unless you want to make your garden into a cage for your family and your poor dog.

Rosieandjim04 · 02/08/2021 20:47

Foxes birds almost every creature has a shit in your garden. You sound like you need help OP

minty133 · 02/08/2021 20:53

War and Peace! Gave up reading this

echt · 02/08/2021 22:53

You're in the USA so see need to consult your local bye-laws.

Your poor dog.

MereDintofPandiculation · 03/08/2021 09:43

Yes, ,cats are intelligent and can understand what you want them to do. The difference from dogs is that they don’t care. They have no inbuilt desire to please you

RavingAnnie · 03/08/2021 12:50

@GunnyGirl

The cats are eating the plants, killing them. Knocking over my solar lights, often braking them. Urinating near porch area and when water, it reeks of cat urine.

I sift through cat poop, often haul away pounds of dirt because it’s too much to sift out. It’s the same cats, and my neighbor always comes into my driveway calling for them because he knows they are in my yard, already.

I addressed the issue several times and he laughs it off like I’m joking.

Very frustrating.

Bloody hell. You must have literally herds of cats romping through your garden to create this much damage and poo!
SaskiaRembrandt · 03/08/2021 12:54

Sorry that was too long to read without paragraphs so I don't know what you may or may not BU about, I just wanted to say that I feel sorry for your dog.

RustyBear · 03/08/2021 13:03

The cat learned early on exactly what it was supposed to do and not do. Cats aren’t stupid
No, you were just lucky that your routine suited your particular cat…