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Gardener destroyed my garden

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Kam123 · 30/08/2020 07:54

Today a gardener hacked away 3/4 of my perrenial garden. Our house is going on the market in a week and I have a 3 month old baby so the garden was out of control, and I hired a gardener to weed and mulch it. I didn't keeping an eagle eye on him because of caring for my baby and packing up my house, and before I knew it he had mown down the majority of my garden. Dozens of perennials, trees and bushes now just stumps. I'm so sad I can't go backwards in time, so pissed since my house is going up for sale in a week. I'm just devastated. 7 years of making a beautiful garden ruined in one afternoon. I have no idea what I'm going to do - I hired him because I don't have time to garden, and now I'm left with patches of nothing.

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bestnest · 30/08/2020 07:57

I'm sorry this does sound really awful and horrible for you when you also have such a small baby. I am sure it will not impact your house sale as no one else will know what it looked liked before.
Did you tell the gardener you we're unhappy? Why did he cut it all down?

Chemenger · 30/08/2020 08:00

In my experience this is what gardeners do. You say the word “tidy” they hear “reduce to a post-apocalyptic wasteland”. It will grow back but not in time for your house sale. Gardeners hate weeding if it involves distinguishing between weeds and plants one. I think it’s because many people who describe themselves as gardeners are actually just people who cut grass, they have no garden knowledge.

Kam123 · 30/08/2020 08:28

I went running out before he finished off the last of it and said "you cut everything down! Including a tree!" And he replied that it was all weeds. Tonight I sent him a list of all the plants he ruined in hopes that he will replace some of them (although not sure o want him touching my garden again). It seems the only plants he can identify are hostas, peonies and roses - everything else in his opinion, is weeds. Including lavender, perennial geranium, lupines, black eyed Susan's, Russian sage and more....
The weirdest part was i distinctly asked him to save anything flowering to make the garden look nice, and it's like he did the opposite.

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LovingLola · 30/08/2020 08:32

Whee did you find him?
And did you pay him?

rottiemum88 · 30/08/2020 08:33

Sadly it's quite common. It's too late now, but in hindsight it would probably have been worth doing a quick walk around the garden with him at the start and pointing out precisely what you wanted him to do. As a PP said though, it's unlikely to affect your sale. Some people hate hardening, so will appreciate a clearer space anyway as they can visualise better what they might do with it

HollysBush · 30/08/2020 08:36

Sorry I’ve got no experience of gardeners but as (an amateur) gardener myself I have great sympathy for you.

LizzieAnt · 30/08/2020 08:39

I think it’s because many people who describe themselves as gardeners are actually just people who cut grass, they have no garden knowledge.

The last 'gardener' my mother hired - to help her out for a day or two - couldn't tell an oak tree from an ash. He did a lot of damage too.

AdoreTheBeach · 30/08/2020 08:40

I learned this too. I hired a Gardner to do a garden tidy and booked the estate agent in to do the photos the next day. Devastated so many of my Perenials, many in bloom, were gone. I’ll never hire a “Gardner” to weed again.

I’d also asked him to redo /redefine the edge around the beds as I can no longer due that after knee surgery and broken foot/ankle surgery, then to put down bark chips to keep weeds down during process of selling. He’d ever so carefully placed the bark chips do I didn’t see he had not bothered to do the edging. Looks a right ness and bark chips all over the lawn now as no edge holding them back.

I feel for you op

As previous poster said, no one coming to see will know what is missing. Perhaps just get a few pots with colourful plants in them to add some colour for the photos.

Chemenger · 30/08/2020 08:41

I had my entire herb bed dig up by a “gardener” and a whole bed of newly planted bedding plants. Both while I was not around to supervise. The only gardener I’ve ever had who was really competent couldn’t make a living from what he could charge for garden maintenance and gave up.

Kam123 · 30/08/2020 08:44

I found him on the internet from bark.com where you post the job and people reply to you, and didn't do my due diligence - just too stressed about the house sale and baby and so I didn't notice that he didn't have any reviews. I already paid him up front too. I actually did a full walk around the garden with him, and asked him to please just weed the areas and cut back some of the plants so that there was more distinction between them...and to keep anything with flowers.... But I didn't realize that when I was showing him this he had no idea what was a plant. Stupidly I assumed since he had replied to my posting and said it was the perfect job for his company, that he knew what he was doing.
Thank you for saying it won't affect the house value, that helps.
I'm really sad because I had bluebeard bush that was in full bloom and was here when we moved here with a really thick old gnarled trunk, and he chopped it to the ground. It was my favorite. It always had so many bees and butterflies.
Argghhhhh. I just don't know how to let go.
I think I'm going to have to mulch like crazy and have "that" type of garden, i.e. one without plants.

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nzeire · 30/08/2020 08:50

That’s awful, I’m so sorry.

TDGH1245ANON · 30/08/2020 08:53

Well you did say to him cut everything down including a tree and that's what he did!

Kam123 · 30/08/2020 08:56

Nope I didn't tell him to cut everything down, I told him to weed and add definition. Definitely didn't tell him to cut down any trees.

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Camphillgirl · 30/08/2020 09:01

Go buy load of geraniums in pots they are going cheap now and dot them around for colour. Houseviewers are not going to examine the garden in close detail. Overall effect from Windows is best you can hope for now. Anyway autumn approaches and gardens will look dull whatever.

Jayaywhynot · 30/08/2020 09:01

Ooh I'm mad on your behalf!
Nowt you can do to reverse the damage.
Could you plant some winter flowering pansies, Hellaborus, cyclamen in between the damaged plants to give some colour, maybe buy some £1 planters and fill with pansies and dot them around the garden, you can get really cheap one at supermarkets.
Tell prospective buyers that you have had the perennials cut back so that they come back / flower even better next year, like you have done them a massive favour

Purplewithred · 30/08/2020 09:19

This is my experience with gardeners too - my next door neighbour had a ‘gardener’ whose gardening comprised cutting back all flowering shrubs to either a round or square shape just before flowering, and mowing the lawn. When I pointed out the ground elder and bindweed creeping into my garden he said he didn’t have time for weeding and anyway they were impossible to weed out as they rooted so deep (also called the ground elder “geranium”).

When I did some (paid) gardening through a local charity my customers were amazed that I actually could discriminate between a weed and a bedding plant, knew what plants were called, and could edge a lawn. It’s all a bit of a shocker.

Hedgesfullofbirds · 30/08/2020 09:50

Sadly this is such a common occurence and happens over and over again. There are many ' mow & blow' merchants out there who will cut your grass and hedges, but have no knowledge of plant identification, species or seasonal pruning techniques, plant care or anything else. A van, a mower and a hedgetrimmer do not a 'gardener' make!

Skilled, artisan craft gardeners are a 'rara avis' and are a rare commodity amongst the hordes of so called 'gardeners' out there in the land of self employed mobile gardeners. To garden properly takes time and skill - the concomitant affect being that hourly rates or price for a job would be high, akin to that of any other skilled tradesperson, and rightly so. This is the reason I am not prepared to be a self employed gardener - it is doubtful if I would find much work as for some reason clients expect gardeners to come cheap. Factor in elements such as the cost of disposal of 'arisings', travelling time, maintenance or replacement of expensive machinery in addition to income tax, national insurance, pension etc and it gets expensive!

I am also angry on your behalf OP, but angry also that this kind of behaviour leads to all gardeners having a bad reputation.

Not much help to you in this situation, but for future reference, if you are going to engage a gardener, either as a 'one off' or on a regular basis a few pointers:

Ask to see a portfolio of their previous work - a skilled gardener should be proud to showcase what they have achieved previously.

Walk around with them and try to gauge their knowledge of species identification - if you ask for a particular shrub, tree, bush or plant to be pruned they should advise whether or not it is the correct season to do so and warn you of the possible consequences if you insist on it being done out of season.

Ask to see evidence of Public Liability Insurance - it is common for strimmers especially to throw stones at high speed, broken windows, car windscreens etc are not uncommon.

Ensure that they have a Waste Transfer Licence to legally transport and dispose of 'arisings' - as the instructing person you can be vicariously liable for any unlawful or innappropriate disposal.

Check their attitude to health & safety - appropriate safety clothing should be worn at all times - it horrifies me that anyone can go out and buy a chainsaw, ( one of the most dangerous tools ever invented), with no training or experience and start weilding the thing about with gay abandon. I have seen people using them wearing just shorts and nothing else - no ballistic wear, safety boots or proper forestry helmet. The same applies to strimmers, blowers and hedgetrimmers, all capable of causing fatal or life changing injuries.

Check their attitude to wildlife - no real gardener would willingly destroy any valuable habitat at the wrong time of year, ie nobody should be cutting hedges from March to August during bird nesting season and they should advise you accordingly. A gardener who loves plants is almost certain to have an affinity fir all other forms of wildlife too - it will tell you a good deal about their attitude.

Once again I am so sorry to hear that this has happened to you - hindsight is a wonderful thing!

ittooshallpass · 30/08/2020 10:10

OP so sorry to hear your garden has been ruined. I could cry for you. My neighbour got their parents to sort their garden for them when they had a newborn; they just hacked everything down and took a chainsaw to bushes and trees. It was horrific. I've no idea what they were thinking.

At least you are moving soon and won't have to look at the destruction for too long. So sorry this has happened to you. My garden is my safe haven so I understand your devastation.

Cheetahfajita · 30/08/2020 10:13

This is DHs idea of gardening. You'll have to buy a few new ones to make it look okay but if I were you I wouldn't bother. Plants won't sell a house.

Backtoschoolnotsoonenough · 30/08/2020 10:20

Leave an honest review. Save another upset customer...

Atalune · 30/08/2020 10:25

Omg I would have sobbed. I am NO gardener but I do love my little patch and recently parted with a sun of money for some proper garden design plans and planting ideas.

Before I tough anything in my garden I refer to my plans, look it up on the RHS site and make certain I am not ripping something wonderful out.

I am so sad for you. What a callous butchering idiot!

Leave an honest review and ask for compensation.

Flatpackback · 30/08/2020 14:58

Oh that’s heart breaking isn’t it? All that love & care ruined. I can appreciate how upset you are but all is not lost from a sale point of view. As PP have said, not everyone appreciates a garden, particularly one full of plants.Plenty will be like the “gardener” and just see it as something to be cleared. Also as we’re now moving into autumn many of the plants would have finished blooming for this year and be dying back naturally. If the property takes a while to sell, all potential buyers will see is a clear space. I loved my garden in a previous house & one lot of viewers discussed in front of me all the changes they would make to it, it really put my back up. For now, if the estate agent haven’t taken photos buy in bedding that you can pop in pots for a bit of colour. Start planning for your new garden.

Kam123 · 30/08/2020 17:37

Thanks everyone for your comments, I'm finding them very helpful.

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Multiplying2020 · 31/08/2020 13:16

I had something like this - I asked on a local site (thinking they'd be more honest) for a recommendation, and came up with someone who seemed perfect.

The gardener came round and I went over what I wanted him to do, and he gave me a (high, but I thought it would be worth it for someone who knows what he's doing) quote.

I had a conference that day, but left a set of instructions with DH just in case (don't let them cut this down, just weeding here etc).

Came back to find my carefully tended roses and lavender hacked to stumps, along with everything else, but the lawn not mown and some of the weeds left 'because they looked pretty'.

Never again.

Kam123 · 31/08/2020 14:17

Ughhh! Why can't these people accept what they don't know and not take jobs they're not qualified for?
Is anyone else a bit scared of leaving bad reviews for people who know where you live? I'm thinking of waiting to leave my review until I move.

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