Ok so forgive me if I get any terms wrong but I need advice. My DH and myself moved into our house about 8 years ago. It has a pretty large south facing garden. He doesn’t remember it clearly but when we arrived it was very manicured with lawn and flower beds. a vegetable patch, strawberry beds, a greenhouse etc. The first year we had full flower beds planted by the previous occupiers. At the time I had serious misgivings about the size of the garden since neither of us knew about plants or gardening but my DH was keen ( but overly optimistic) 4 months after moving I gave birth to DD and my involvement has been very sporadic and we now find ourselves with very few flowers, lots of tall, straggly shrubs and a weedy veg patch. I would like to start from scratch and learn about plants and how to design an attractive, informal, wildlife friendly garden that is also productive. In the real world I don’t have tons of time but I think a couple of hours of maintenance every weekend is realistic. I don’t want to use chemicals and I’m not interested in overly designed looking spaces with lots of flowers. I’m reviving the compost heaps and we’ve planted some seeds in the greenhouse but it’s all very haphazard. Where should I start? Is there an online resource or gardener you’ve found who i should explore? I already have some RHS books on plants and garden design and books on growing fruit & veg but they’re not very “ sustainable “ & it’s not quite what I need. Am I getting ahead of myself... do I need to go back to basics and if so what are they?