Hello, do you mind if I join you on this marvellous thread? I have been lurking for quite some time on this board and have really enjoyed reading about all of your gardens.
I'm a relative beginner, mostly owing to the crazy price of property in the south east. For the first 20 or so years after moving out of the family home I spent my time tending houseplants, window boxes, tiny sunless yards, a sun-baked balcony, and a garden of Japanese knotweed.
But a few years ago we finally bought our own house with a front and back garden, and for the first time ever I am thinking about the longer term, what I would like to grow and what might be nice in a few years rather than what I can take with me when I move. Which is really exciting but also a bit daunting, after so many years of essentially container gardening.
I also work almost full time and have a long commute, so I have plenty of time for reading on my phone, but rather less time for actually doing anything in the garden.
Our gardens are a north-facing back garden about 45 feet long, which doubles as a pitch for football-mad DS1, and south-facing front garden which is small, but at least I am free to plant things there that would not cope well with a badly aimed football bouncing off them.
At the moment my strategy is to grow springy and vigorous sorts of things in the back, and try not to worry too much about what happens to them. Hellebores, grasses, various herbs, hardy geraniums, shasta daisies, polemonium, forget me nots, ceanothus, achillea, vinca, campanula and aquilegia are growing there at the moment, and a climbing rose and honeysuckle on the back fence. And we have a small cherry tree and apple tree (minaret) in a corner away from the main pitch area.
The front garden is really my project for now. It's a bit of a mess at the moment. It was almost completely empty when we moved in (previous owners apparently grew a lot of annuals), and has filled up with an assortment of plants that I've been given or salvaged from B&Q's shelf of half-dead things, but nothing seems to be in the right place and there is a crazy assortment of colours. It's only a small area, about 6 x 4 metres of garden not counting the driveway, and I'd really like to start again and plan it properly.
While musing out there today I was slightly alarmed to spot a rosemary beetle, as apparently they like to eat rosemary, lavender and thyme, all of which thrive in the sun-baked spot by the front wall of our house. Apparently I'm supposed to spray them with insecticide or shake them off the plant and squash them, but I'm pretty rubbish at killing garden pests. Will I regret it if I leave them alone?