Hello! As I am now actually gardening I feel able to join in the thread again. Did a big weeding session last weekend (my mother's day treat was to have clear time in the garden). The boy helped plant some sweet peas around a wigwam that will protect a birdbox from direct sun (seeds straight in the ground, haven't done any prepping this year. If they don't come up, hey-ho.) and he's turning into a useful weeding assistant.
Today I tackled the lawn. Perhaps I should have mowed it first, but didn't. I have big clumps (hand-spread size at least) of weeds in it - dandelions, daisies, clover, moss, something seriously invasive that looks like a buttercup/geranium, hairy bittercress... I asked DH if he had any appetite to rip the lot up and start again (the lawn was never very flat) and he said he didn't. Thing is, if it was up to me we wouldn't have a lawn (it's nearly circular, about 4m diameter). We'd have a socking great fruit tree with a bench encircling the trunk, then around that we'd have cottage garden gravellyness with chamomile, thyme, alpines, crocuses, and these weeds would be ok, perhaps in the case of daisies and he teeny blue trailing flowers, they'd even be welcome. But he thinks (and any house buyer would also think) that for a family house you have to have a lawn to play on. Never mind that we back onto woods and fields, and the space in the garden is nowhere near actually enough space to kick a ball properly!
I have loads of tulips out - red ones and cream ones. I'll take a photo in the morning. Needless to say these are "naturalised" - life is far to short to lift bulbs here!! I have got rather congested daffs though and will probably lift some of those and share them around the place. My chionodoxa didn't come up this year next to my yellow crocuses, which I was disappointed about. And my Midwinter Fire wasn't very bright either, although I did follow the advice to prune it.
Really looking forward to the display in later spring on the rockery - fat, healthy leaves on my big bearded irises, globe alliums and crocosmia. Totally OTT bed but I love it.
Thinking about dividing a clump of primrose tomorrow, and giving the lawn a big dose of weed killer. It still confuses me how they can make selective weedkiller that gets the weeds but not the grass...