There was a wonderful Daphne Bholua at Hyde Hall yesterday. I think it would be lovely in a hedge, as long as it was a higgledy piggledy hedge, not one that needs to be cut to a flat top and sides. My mum went on a ledge laying day to be able to maintain their mixed hedging around the fields on their smallholding in Devon. You get a youngish stem, bend it where you have the gap, hack it to half-break it, which I think also stimulates new growth, and peg it down with pruned branches that have stem junctions strong enough to be a sort of hook. Humphrey probably knows this stuff, or MrCobbler...!
Funny I am feeling sort of quite ok about work really. DH was made redundant last year when his company was taken over. It was quite well paid off, and gave him some breathing space to think about what he actually wanted to do (look for another corporate IT permanent job, do contracting, freelance...) and it turned out what he really wanted was to make me a balanced and nutritious packed lunch every day when I was pregnant and commuting an hour each way into London.
Particularly as last April I was promoted so really need to show my mettle in the new grade. We decided recently that both of us being in work FT would happily cover the cost of 2 FT childcare places (well, one nursery and another before/after school club) but leave us precious little free time to actually spend together, and we'd be paying to mitigate things like housework and proper cooking. Then the unpredictability of having to take days off due to little bugs, D&V exclusion periods, and so on. It would just mean we were always juggling and never getting quality time. So, he's going to be the SAHP for a while, which does feel a little odd (the cultural propaganda of it being the mother's role runs deep!) but it will work for us, I think, because he's coming at it like a project that he wants to Do Properly.
I popped out with the bins this morning in my pyjamas and found lots of chionodoxa and crocus shoots amongst a thick layer of leaf litter at the edge of the decking, visible from my sofa in the kitchen extension. Oh, spring!