We have a new garden that has a pergola going down the fence line and this winter we planted about 10 roses and a series of raspberry canes along it. Went out Saturday and saw that one of the roses had withered away and on closer insepction saw that it had aphids. I spent basically all of sunday going over all the roses (plus an extra 4 scattered around the rest of the garden) trying to hand pick off the fuckers bugs and spraying the leaves with a water + fairy liquid.
The next day the bug count was down significantly, but the leaves were all looking really droopy and sad. We rinsed the leaves but the next day aphids were back (still, not in their original numbers) so we did a lighter spraying and now they just all look on the brink of collapse.
I don't know if I'm over reacting but I really don't want my babies all dying off. We've watered them as well but hoping you all have some good advice or failing that, if someone can break the news to me gently that a recovery is unlikely.