DM told me to pinch out the side shoots on my tomatoes in grow bags, but I can't tell which bits are side shoots. They all look like leaf stems to me. What am I supposed to be doing?
toms are now about a foot tall, they have lots of side stems with leaves on, but they only seem to be growing upwards at one point, if that makes sense.
one of them does have a shoot with flowers on, but don't I want those for fruit?