As all you Mums of 16 year olds will know, the last 6 months has been really stressful, and I know I have personally been incredibly focussed on helping DD2 with GCSE revision and DD1 with A Level revision. Added to that, my lovely Dad was diagnosed with Alzheimer's recently, and despite him living 120 miles away, I am his main carer. So to say it's been a busy and stressful period is something of an understatement!
I have been battling with a chest infection since around March, and have seen various GPs, had 3 course of antibiotics and 2 of steroids, but was soldiering on, getting more and more breathless as each week passed. Until a couple of days after GCSE results, when I finally felt like "my work here is done", and my lovely DSis was staying with my Dad for a few days, my body just gave out.
I'm home now, after 10 days in ITU with bacterial pneumonia. It's been a pretty scary time, but I am just so happy to be home to be able to make the most of the last couple of weeks before DD1 heads off to Cardiff for Uni, and to listen to DD2 chatter excitedly about her A Level choices and all the new things she can't wait to learn!
One of the main things I kept thinking about when I was in that hospital bed was how excited and happy DD2 was when she shared her hard won GCSE results with me. It really kept me going.
Anyway, I just wanted to pop this here because several people have said to me that I spent months feeling increasingly unwell, but it was the "power of Mum" that kept me going until the results were in, we knew DD1 had her uni place and DD2 could do the A Levels she wanted. I'm sure I'm not the only one who put their own wellbeing to the side during this stressful period, but perhaps a reminder that we need to ensure we look after ourselves, as well as others (or not have kids 2 school years apart)!