Looking for advice from the wise MN on a heart vs head quandary.
DS yr11 will be sitting GCSEs in 2024 and is predicted 7-9s across the board.
He is considering 2 options:
- School Sixth Form doing A-levels in Business Studies, Physics and Maths. Predicted 9, 8/9 and 7 respectively at GCSE.
BUT he is adamant that he doesn't want to go to university and has absolutely no idea what career might interest him that he could use these a-levels for. He would be choosing them based on subjects he enjoys doing.
When asked what he wants to do "career wise" he says he wants to be a professional at a sport he currently participates in and has started competing in this year.
Which leads me to option 2.
- RPA/HNC/HND Sports Development Coaching. A particular College offers this qualification alongside practical coaching in his sport. The course is aimed specifically at those competing at national level and wanting to progress to international/professional level.
It's 3 days at college + 2 days practical and after 3 years he would have a HND alongside a coaching qualification in the sport and another qualification related to it.
BUT the college is 2 hours away from us and does not have its own accommodation so we would have to find (private?) student accommodation for him. Cost isn't an issue but he would only be be 16+9 months at enrolment.
My HEAD says we should be encouraging him to stay on at school. What I thought I wanted to do at 16 bore no resemblance to what I ended up doing as a career, so he should keep his options open.
The a-levels he is thinking about would open up more doors into careers that are well paid (engineering, AI, robotics, etc etc).
We could afford to pay for him to have the coaching element of the college course at weekends etc so he'd still be getting the development in his sport.
Not doing a-levels in those subjects with those predicted grades somehow feels "a waste".
My heart says encourage him to follow his heart.
I've always said that people should do a job they love and feel passionate about. Life is about living not working to pay bills.
I want him to travel and see the world, and this sport could be a great opportunity IF it turned out he was good at it.
But what if he isn't?
What if he doesn't make it as a professional?
What else could he do with a HND in Sports Development? The options seem fairly limited, none of which in all honesty I could see him liking.
Sensible me says a-levels, get a decent paying job and do the sport as a self funded amateur.
But I also wanted him to live his life to the max!