I don't know what to do at the moment. DSS has just started college at one of the best in the area (quite a wide area, actually), and he was thrilled to be accepted, having only just got enough in his GCSEs.
He seemed thrilled at the new freedom that sixth form brings, along with "frees". I did tell him that frees aren't frees as such, and that he should use them to do homework or to study.
Since he started, he hasn't stayed in college for any of his frees. If he has them in the morning, he goes in later, if he has an afternoon off, he comes home. He doesn't seem to be doing any homework at home (he sits with us and watches TV or plays on the computer all evening) and he says he doesn't have any.
I just can't believe that this is true. I remember when I was at sixth form and every teacher (2 for each subject), gave us weekly homework, and they weren't quick tasks. I refuse to believe that the best sixth form in the area hasn't given any homework for six whole weeks - and he only has two frees that are between lessons that he stays in college for, so that's surely not enough time to get all of his homework done.. and he's let slip that him and his friends go for food in their frees anyway!
I'm worried. I know just how much A Levels can build up, and if you've not put the work in at the beginning it can just get horrendous. If he underperforms they won't enter him for exams as it spoils their 100% pass rate.
I am just scared that he's wasting an opportunity. He goes to college, sure, but he doesn't do anything else. He doesn't help at all round the house, and doesn't have any other interests. He doesn't seem depressed or anything, he just doesn't do anything. I'm not sure if that last bit is even relevant :(.
Anyone else going through similar? Any tips?