I have twins both looking at uni this year. I have been through an extremely acrimonious divorce with severe financial implications to me and there is zero communication from x as he basically is an arse!
He Is director of own company and able to manipulate his earnings and has done so during divorce to imply lack of money and on this basis refused to pay kids school fees. I have continued to pay these for DS for two years out of my settlement.
X has told kids to apply for uni loan off the back of me as I currently am not working and they will receive maximum amount. However I am now running out of money and will need to consider employment going forward.
As the student finance is assessed each year I am concerned whether they will be eligible for loan in years 2 &3 and my questions is does anyone know the level of income in relation to percentage of loan or where I can find this information.
X earns too much for kids to be eligible for loan if his income and OW’s income taken into account - she works for the company.
X has form for misleading kids and providing them with less than full information. I am concerned that he is leading them down a route where they both think they will get maximum loan for 3 years and are basing their choices on this - particularly DD who is looking in London with high living costs.
I doubt I will be in a position to help them out financially - I am likely to find it difficult to support myself having not worked for 20 years and suffering with long term depression.
I cannot guarantee that X will support them financially due to his actions over school fees and payment of Child maintenance.
For some reason this has just dawned on me today and I do not want my kids to be under financial pressure
Any guidance appreciated