Well done bpisok and whistl's DC - always encouraging to be told that you are on the right track.
whistl Our previous Parents Evenings sound exactly like yours - teacher asking DS how he thinks he is doing etc etc. Pretty useless if you actually need specific answers! Plus it ran in 'speed dating' style where parents had about 5 minutes with each teacher - made it more stressful than anything else. With DS1, it was fine as he was fine, but with DS2, we really struggled to get anywhere. Last year saw me with photocopies of his SEN report (done privately as school refused to acknowledge his needs), handing them out to each teacher as the SEN support team in school hadn't bothered informing them. He has since been assessed by school and awarded 25% extra time.
Our sixth form Parents' Evening is in the summer term - seems far away. In the meantime, we get termly progress reports like bpisok's. Scary to think they start UCAS applications in 10 months' time. Please hold my hand as we go through this process together!
DS2 more open to apprenticeships so I shall be looking closely at your experiences too.