I had a nightmare time with dd over gcse's and lack of revision. As it happens she did very well, better than expected. I told her once she was at 6th form she would be on her own. No more lifts to ensure she was on time and no more nagging about work.
However, 4 weeks in I've found out she has been late for one class in particular a few times and is being distracted (by boys) in lessons for this class also. She is late for everything and always has been and she does not seem to care.
I've told her tutor to crack down on her as she doesn't take any notice of me and that she has to take responsibility herself. I tried speaking to her about it but it ended up in a row
I must say she is only at 6th form as they have no choice and have to stay in education.
I should really just let her sort herself out shouldn't I?