Hi ladies and gents.
Newbie here.
I just am here today as I really don't know where else to turn.
I have been contacted today by LA in regards to an acquaintances 4 month old baby.
Mum is in a Mother Baby Placement, she has 3 other children already out of her care with a Gaurdianship order with family members. Her Mental Health is a bit all over and it looks highly likely this child shall be removed also.
Dad has history of DV and also Mental Health factors so currently is undergoing an IPO? Before been allowed near the child.
Both parents have seemingly put Myself and my Husband down to step in and take the child. The phonecall consisted today of taking some details. Explaining the situation a little bit but it would seem the parents are going to be negative at there assesments.
Now here is the thing.
The phonecall today was handled as if the social worker was talking about rehoming a goldfish. I was truly lett flabberghasted. Basically can we screen/asses you guys and will you take baby on long term foster until she is 18 if parents are negative on these assessments.
Myself and My Husband are willing to consider the proposal given to us... we have one son of our own who is 12.
We both drive. He's self employed. I was just about to re kick start my career... but big but... finances.
The price of living is already crazy. Yes we get by relatively comfortably thankfully compared to some. Always have decent food on the table. Clothes on our backs. Utilitys on ect. But we private rent a 2 bed house. This house is perfect. We love it. If we were to long term foster baby obviously we would need an extra bedroom. This is where fostering allowance questions start to kick in. We have time. We have love. We have experience. We don't have an extra £300 per month towards rent of a new property ( we claim no benefit ) . I have read that LA fostering allowance in our area starts from £124 - £276 a week. I don't want to foster a child for 18 years and have just "get by" or make do ... I want to be able to do it comfortably. Less financial stress - Happier adults - happier home. I guess my point of the Q is what financial help exactly is out there for long term foster carers through LA? I know private agencies can pay around £500 per week. Also would the working tax and child tax credit we get now be stopped? Will it be a case of stealing from Peter to feed Paul as such? Any advice greatly appreciated. Regards.
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Ownedbyacob · 11/04/2022 23:55
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