Hi all 😊
I just wondered if anyone has any experience of adding a birth child to the family whilst fostering? We have a very settled 14 year old girl who has been with us for a year. We will be applying for permanency for her once she has a permanent social worker in place (she's between social workers at the moment). My husband and I decided to foster before having our own children however now is the right time for us and we are expecting our first child in October.
Our foster daughter is over the moon and really excited about the baby, however I still want to make sure we do absolutely everything we can to make sure her nose isn't pushed out and she still feels like a solid, secure part of this family.
We had an early reassurance scan a few weeks ago and she chose to come with us. I asked her to sit in the waiting room just until we'd been told everything was okay and then invited her in to have a look, which she appeared to really enjoy.
I just want to make sure I'm doing everything I can to keep her in the positive mindset she's in now so any advice or shared experience would be appreciated!
Thanks 🥰
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emmajane90 · 11/03/2022 10:04
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