Good morning,
I have been feeling a calling for foster caring for quite some time now and I think I want to start in the next 12 months.
I just read that SW ask for references of past relationships. The problem is I have never been in a long term relationship and I don't want to try and contact someone I dated for a few months 2/4/10 years ago to ask for a reference. So to be clear, I would not provide any reference from ex partners.
My lifestyle is a choice, I am not desperate to live with skmekne, I enjoy my independance.
I have been a nanny for over 10 years now though. I have a child related diploma. I have dozens of glowing references from people I have worked for (most for over 2 years). I have been with the same family for over 7 years. Sure enough all these references are good enough to prove that I am not a child abuser.
I understand the need to be thorough in checking a prospective carer, but that information made me feel very uncomfortable and actually doubt I can be a foster carer (which would be a shame). I am a bit worried to go through the whole process to be humiliated then rejected because of my personal life.
Anyone could give me their opinion/experience on that?
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Sammymommy · 20/02/2022 11:46
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