Do we both need to attend the skills for fostering course?

[1Mumwhowingsit]

Hi everyone,
We are starting the fostering journey and are waiting for a SW to call to arrange a first visit.
I live with my partner of 6 years, and my two boys under 9 years old .
Does my partner HAVE to attend the course too or is it something I can do on my own? My partner works long hours and I will be the the main carer. Thank you

Yes you both have to attend the course.

I'm a teacher and my husband was to be the main carer but I was told if I didn't take the time off to do the course we wouldn't be able to be foster carers

You both need to be prepared to attend any training really. You will both need to parent with similar views about needs and best ways of responding. These are not going to be like your own children and your partner needs this understanding just as much as you. It's parenting plus, plus, plus. Also meeting other carers can be a lifesaver. All the best with it. It's such an important profession.

I sit on fostering panels and agree that you both have to attend the course. He may not be the main carer but he has to know everything it entails and make sure it is right for him.

He'll have to attend all core training courses too and be available for a certain number of sw stat visits per year.

I have just completed the prep group without my husband due to his working hours. Our SW said that we can still go to panel and OH can join another group at some point in the first year.

Thanks everyone.
I spoke to them today and they said he needs to attend the course but that they will discuss it with me when they come and visit so maybe there’s an option to do it separately to me.

The Regulations talk about Fostering Households rather than individual carers. So in essence, yes he should attend.

From a personal view, you are both entering a huge commitment and I believe your husband needs full information before making the decision that this is right for your family. Strongly advise he attends.