Ladies i really need some help
right i had a parents meeting at the school and the morning before i wrote in the link book i had a bad weekend with lo then while i was having a lack visit from my social worker later that day school phoned and asked if i could see the schools social worker before i see the teachers ,
she had asked me what was going on so i explained what i ment when i worte in the link book and asked about developments from the lack review i informed her that los social worker had not been in contact and to be fair did have a little bit of a moan about her , then today i get a phone call from my social worker asking what had gone on the school social worker had repeated everything i had said in the meeting and copied the child's social worker, my social worker and the child's social workers boss into the email 
i couldn't believe it my social worker had said to me
my concerns have now been escalated and now their has to be a MEETING and email read like i had gone to the school to complain about the child's worker forgetting to mention that she invited us to a meeting hence my social worker is not very happy
and i am very worried about what will happen i did say some of what the school emailed but with out any context or putting the questions she had asked us wasn't really very fair.
i think she thought maybe she was backing us up and at the end of the meeting she hugged me 
my social worker mow says i should be vary careful what i say to anybody out side of the LA i am now feeling i cant speak to any other professionals about my concerns
what should i do if anything now 
should i just wait till my worker tells me the out come
its like we all working together but shhhh dont speak to any one elese
i feeling like everyones out for their own not for the child and like do i really want to put myself trough this anymore everytime i have a bloody meeting i keep getting told not to say much then whats the point of the meeting gurrrr