Hi, have namechanged.
I recently found that a cousin of mine is engaged to a woman and has had two children with her, in quick succession of each other. I was not aware of this as we lost touch years ago.
I don't have any contact with him as he is a heroin addict, and has lost most of his life to this addiction.
Unfortunately, his DP has been unable to stop the heroin during her pregnancies. As a consequence, both children were born addicted. The DCs were removed from them at birth and are now in foster care.
Since discovering this, I have been wondering if there would be a possibility for me and DH to foster the children?
DH and I are in a position to do so and I think it would be of value for them to have strong links with their biological family.
DH has a good career and I work in the caring profession. We have one birth DC. Fostering is something we have been considering for some time.
Does anyone have any advice for me? Should I phone the local council for an informal chat?