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Forces sweethearts

If you have a family member in the Royal Navy, RAF or army, find support from other Mumsnetters here.

I thought I would share this with you all

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MissPitstop · 14/04/2008 12:49

Ive just been sent this, its about being an army wife but applies to all of us on here. WARNING it made me cry!

ARMY WIVES - LIVE EVERYDAY LIKE HE DEPLOYS TOMORROW - PROUD TO BE A SOLDIERS WIFE

This is for the young women that are waking up at 6 a.m. every morning, laying out clothes and packing three lunches for those small precious children that they have been left alone to care for.

This is for the pregnant Army wife wondering if her husband will make it home in time to watch their miracle happen.

This is for the childless Army wife, living in a town or on a base alone where she is a complete stranger to her surroundings.

This is for the women that feel like a third leg when they go out with their friends and their husbands.

This is for the Army wife that cancelled all her plans to wait by the phone, and even though the phone broke up and cut off every time you spoke to him, you waited anyway.

This is a pledge to the women that cry themselves to sleep in an empty bed.

This is to recognize the woman that felt like she was dying inside when he said he had to go, but smiled for him anyway.

This is for those of you that are faithfully in that long line at the post office once a month, handling 2 large boxes and 2 small children like a pro.

This is for that woman that decided to remodel the house to pass time, and then realized that she had no idea what she was doing and sighed and wished she had a little help.

This is for all the lonely nights, all the one-person dinners, and all of the wondering thoughts because you haven't heard from him in days.

This is for the sad Army wives, the angry Army wives, and the strong Army wives.

A toast to you for falling apart, and putting yourselves back together. Because a pay packet isn't enough, a body pillow in your bed is no consolation, and a web cam can never compare.

This is for all of you no matter how easy or hard this was for you. Our soldiers are brave, they are heroes, but so are we.

So the next time someone tells you that they would never marry an Army guy, don't bother explaining to them that you can't control who you fall in love with. Just think of this and nod your head, know that you are the stronger woman.

Hold your heads up high, hang that flag in your front garden, wear you're yellow ribbon, and then give yourself a pat on the back.

Be proud to be the woman that you are, be proud to be an Army wife.

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BitLessTiredNow · 14/04/2008 14:44

thank you - I needed this today - DS has just gone away AGAIN - only for a month this time, but he only got back from Iraq 6 weeks ago. My argument to those who say I knew what I was marrying into is yes I did, but my children didn't and I am having to manage their pain.

scaryteacher · 14/04/2008 15:51

You can substitute Navy wife there as well! You may know what you're marrying into, I did, Navy brat myself, but it doesn't make it any easier when they go away.

MotherOfGirls · 14/04/2008 16:56

I hope you don't mind, but I copied this poem to a friend with 2 small children, whose husband is on a six month tour in Afghanistan. She really appreciated being reminded she isn't alone.

Thank you for giving me the opportunity to cheer her up - although it did make her cry too!

catzy · 14/04/2008 20:03

Thanks MissPitstop. That really touched me too. It made me laugh as well. How often I hear 'oh I don't know how you do it, I couldn't do it'.

littlelapin · 14/04/2008 20:05

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SammyC · 14/04/2008 20:10

How great!
I do think we are all brilliant ha ha! even if i say so myself! ha

SammyC · 14/04/2008 20:11

How great!
I do think we are all brilliant ha ha! even if i say so myself! ha

BitLessTiredNow · 14/04/2008 21:15

Hi LL, sorry I wasn't on here for the deployment of your DH - have been thinking of you though, and hope I can be a little support to you as you were a tremendous amount for me. Dh has just rung from his ex - sadly, some fatalities there too today - so horrid for their families.

LilRedWG · 14/04/2008 21:18

You are all wonderful women, who should be extremely proud of your husbands.

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BitLessTiredNow · 15/04/2008 20:12

bless you LL - my bezza is moving to shriv this summer - I must put you in touch with her - she is lovely. How old are your DCs? Hers are 8, 6 4 and 6 months

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BitLessTiredNow · 16/04/2008 20:45

I will certainly when I know where they are going. She is Army wife - but don't hold that against her - she is lovely

VanillaPumpkin · 18/04/2008 16:26

All the Army wives I know are fab and really GOOD FUN!

BitLessTiredNow · 18/04/2008 20:27

I'm just teasing LL as she is a navy wife

VanillaPumpkin · 19/04/2008 14:15

Oh yes, navy wives are dull .

Actually I think some of us RAF wives can be the dullest. Thank goodness I got in with the REME crowd when overseas .

BitLessTiredNow · 19/04/2008 17:47

hee he - my dh is REME, and one of my bf's here is an RAF wife!

VanillaPumpkin · 19/04/2008 18:44

Lol!

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