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Forces sweethearts

If you have a family member in the Royal Navy, RAF or army, find support from other Mumsnetters here.

Anyone live at home not on near camp?

4 replies

Reeds67 · 12/06/2019 09:08

Hi is anyone fed up of just sat waiting for their DH to come home?

For info I know lots of wives / girlfriends just live normally. Work see friends and carry on as usual.

I don't I have anxiety depression and a learning disability.

I don't do anything alone.

I'm wasting our life.

He can phone me whenever he wants. He can chill out when he's finished work. Watch Netflix all night etc.

If he's going to eat he can hang up. I wish I could pick and choose what bits in life I want to do.

The other day he phoned drunk whilst in Amsterdam. I didn't even know he was there.

I feel like I'm waiting for my life to start.

Yes I knew what his job was but you don't actually know until you live it.

Sorry for the moan x

OP posts:
avalanching · 21/06/2019 21:48

That must be really tough. Is there any reason you've decided to stay unaccompanied?

catmummy1 · 23/06/2019 08:43

I've stayed at home with our toddler while he's away. I'm also pregnant with our second. It can be lonely but I try to keep busy. I know this isn't easily done if you suffer anxiety etc.

Squeak92 · 15/10/2019 22:43

Hi
My husband left the army and is now considering re joining the raf, I have anxiety disorder and also a little girl and I can Completely relate to how you feel, if you need a friend, or anyone to talk to, feel free to message me.

ilovechocolatebiscuits · 17/12/2019 19:29

Sorry but that's not right. He's in another country and he didn't tell you?! What else doesn't he tell you

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