My 14 year old son had a great action packed day at school run by the army and RAF and decided he would like to join army cadets and see if the army might be a possible career choice. He has been twice now and loved it but I am very concerned that (he says) more than half of them smoke and there are certainly not more than half the group over the age of 16 ! Also, a more senior cadet assigned to show him the ropes told him he would be smoking within a year ! He expressed surprise as he has never shown anything other than disgust at smoking but was told that once he had been freezing cold on camp he would want a cigarette. I am not so stupid as to realise that in the regular army in the line of fire that the worries of what might happen in 20 years time to your lungs is not paramount when you might not survive the next patrol but army cadets won't be in this position. The thing that worried me most was that they were packing for a weekend camp and were told by the instructor to pack plenty of cigarettes as there was always people willing to sell them at highly inflated prices to the desperate !
If he decides to join I want to clear up the smoking policy with the cadet leader (apologies for the lack of correct terminology) but don't want to be seen as being over protective mum. Surely cadets promote fitness and a healthy lifestyle but it seems to be just accepted despite the age of the children (yes, they are only 12 some of them). I don't want my 14 year old son pressured into smoking to conform to the group but neither do I want to make things awkward by seeming over protective.
Can anyone involved in cadets offer some advice as to how to tackle this issue ?