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How to decorate a plain fruitcake for a funeral?

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ShhhhhItsASurprise · 16/05/2026 12:17

My lovely friend’s mum died recently and I’ve offered to make some cake for them to serve after the funeral - her mum’s favourite fruitcake but they want a traybake which can be cut and served in small squares. She didn’t like marzipan or icing so whenever I’ve made it for them before I’ve used glacé fruits and nuts to decorate, but that won’t work when it is to be cut into small pieces. The other cake will be lemon drizzle with edible flowers to reflect her love of her garden. Any ideas for a coordinating decoration for the fruit cake? Edible flowers don’t feel like a good match.

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TallagallaPenguin · 16/05/2026 13:55

ShhhhhItsASurprise · 16/05/2026 13:46

I’m thinking I could use pieces of glacé cherries/dried cranberries and dried apricots/other dried fruit to make flower shapes over the top of the cake.

That sounds lovely. Or to be easier you could just alternate half cherries, apricots, fig slices, cranberry/ginger mix, one in each little square to be cut. Makes it easier to cut it into pieces, and would look pretty overall like a chequerboard. Flowers sound lovely but would take more time and might get more easily broken up when it’s sliced.

Fast800goingforit · 16/05/2026 14:29

Got you on making a square cake. I'd do both a fruitcake and a lemon drizzle if you have the capacity and the funds as a lot of people don't like fruitcake although the fruitcake is more significant.

Soontobe60 · 16/05/2026 14:32

ShhhhhItsASurprise · 16/05/2026 13:40

I want to avoid nuts due to potential allergies. Friend isn’t sure who will be attending as her mum was a much loved teacher and they put a notice in the press.

I would make it the way her mum liked it and just put a little card in front of the cakes saying it contains nuts.
if it’s being cut into small squares I would leave it plain.

ShhhhhItsASurprise · 16/05/2026 16:35

Fast800goingforit · 16/05/2026 14:29

Got you on making a square cake. I'd do both a fruitcake and a lemon drizzle if you have the capacity and the funds as a lot of people don't like fruitcake although the fruitcake is more significant.

I am doing both.

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BeGutsyGoldMoose · 18/05/2026 18:13

Just bake in a deep square tin and leave it plain. A square cake is easier to cut into portions. Good luck. I hope all goes well.

ccccccccc · 18/05/2026 18:19

I don't know what kind of fruitcake it is but if it's not rich, something like a boiled fruit cake, you could sprinkle demerara sugar on top - my DM used to do this before it was baked.

ItsOkItsDarkChocolate · 19/05/2026 07:16

ShhhhhItsASurprise · 16/05/2026 16:35

I am doing both.

@ShhhhhItsASurprise

You’re an amazing friend!

I like the idea of a glacé cherry on each cut portion, you could alternate with something else maybe like a half of apricot or something?

Either way, I’m sure they’ll love it!

hididdlyho · 19/05/2026 08:56

Maybe some premade little sugar flowers would work if you're using a glaze they can stick to. What a kind thing to do for your friend.
www.oetker.co.uk/products/p/mini-wafer-flowers

ShhhhhItsASurprise · 19/05/2026 12:13

So the fruit cake is done. I chatted to my friend about a couple of things and came up with a solution which I think is very pretty. I won’t share a picture before the funeral as you never know who is reading.

The lemon drizzle will have edible flowers on it so that’s more straightforward. I’m baking that tonight.

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TheyGrewUp · 19/05/2026 12:19

When I have baked for church I have often mixed edible glitter with the icing sugar so it sparkles. People always comment and I say it represents special prayers.

purplecorkheart · 19/05/2026 12:49

Will you be dividing up the cake. If not I would leave it plain. If you are I would place a small piece of alternating candied lemon and orange peel on. Maybe brush with a tiny bit of apricot jam to stick.

CarbootJunction · 19/05/2026 15:13

I'm craving homemade fruit cake now.

Roundhands · 19/05/2026 15:30

I'd leave it uniced and undecorated. That's the best kind of fruit cake anyway.

GuelderRoses · 19/05/2026 16:06

Just leave it as plain fruit cake, maybe.

ShhhhhItsASurprise · 19/05/2026 16:08

As per my last update, the fruit cake is already made.

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TallagallaPenguin · 19/05/2026 16:18

ShhhhhItsASurprise · 19/05/2026 16:08

As per my last update, the fruit cake is already made.

Like that’ll stop the responses…

Glad it’s all done OP and you came up with a plan. Good luck with the lemon drizzle - it’s a lovely thing you’re doing.

OMGitsnotgood · Yesterday 17:22

if you decorate 100 - 120 pieces of cake, how are you going to transport them so you don’t have to rearrange the decorations that might slip whilst being transported?

Have you considered not decorating them at all? Maybe you’d have time to quickly arrange them on the day - lots of slices on the bottom layer then off set few on the next layer and so on ?

ShhhhhItsASurprise · Yesterday 18:23

OMGitsnotgood · Yesterday 17:22

if you decorate 100 - 120 pieces of cake, how are you going to transport them so you don’t have to rearrange the decorations that might slip whilst being transported?

Have you considered not decorating them at all? Maybe you’d have time to quickly arrange them on the day - lots of slices on the bottom layer then off set few on the next layer and so on ?

The funeral was yesterday.

As I said up thread, they were 2x 12” squares. If you cut them into 1” squares that would be 144 pieces per cake. No
issues transporting them or cutting them on site. There weren’t any layers?

The edible flowers were stuck to the lemon cake with a drizzle of lemon icing. The fruit cake decorations were baked into the top of the cake, so there was no disturbance.

Both went down really well and the family were very grateful for the effort I made. The service was lovely, a decent number of people attended and many had pieces of both cakes. The family took the remaining 1/3rd of each cake home to share with others that couldn’t attend and to enjoy in the garden over the long weekend.

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SemmaLina · Yesterday 21:45

Well baked @ShhhhhItsASurprise what a lovely friend you are

OMGitsnotgood · Today 07:57

Sorry I‘d missed the date. Well done for all that you did.
I just meant arrange the fruit squares in offset layers, so a decorative serving arrangement rather than decorating the actual fruit cake pieces. But was too late anyway! Glad it went well.

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