My mum was an excellent ‘old school’ cook. Born in the 1930s , she learned cooking in the war / rationing years, and her portion control was legendary.
There was not a cut of meat - beef, lamb, pork, chicken even rabbit, that she could not make something.
Her pastry skills were amazing.
My Dad- the kitchen was that room where his wife served his meals, on the table, whenever he came home.
He outlived her , and that was a struggle for us all…