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Exhausted mum needs simple meal plan for herself

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fishtank12345 · 04/02/2026 22:01

Hello

I am so done with thinking of food. I am so tired. I have no time during the working day to cook.

My 2 autistic kids are always with me, home ed. (I am a 24/7 at home carer lol) and they eat completely different things to me and each other.

I have limited energy. I have to watch my carb intake. I need to lose weight. I need some encouragement please. I feel so unhealthy and I used to eat so well I had put my diabetes into remission!

Then I had a 2nd kid and the 1st started struggling and then the 2nd both got diagnosed and my eating healthy has gone right out of the window. I feel I am in survival mode daily.

Dh works long hours Mon to Fri and he is also ND we now know, so not very emotionally encouraging to me. I carry all the emotional stuff of the family and its struggles and I had started stress eating almost 5 years ago, after my 2nd c section and all my years of good diet went out the window.

I do not like salad leafy things, spicy things and I am always hungry as seem to snack all day on sugar even though, I am needing to stop it for my unmedicated type 2 diabetes. I feel such a mess, need to lose 3 stone.

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fishtank12345 · 04/02/2026 22:03

I will never consider weight loss injections just an fyi lol

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MsSmartShoes · 04/02/2026 22:07

You need to do traybakes as they are quick to prep, nutritious, and tasty.

Pinkissmart · 04/02/2026 22:22

I will often prepare the base of a meal, but then do slightly different things with it.
Like roast a chicken, or cook a bunch of pork chops and then have easy variations like a stir fry / soup/ ramen.
Can you prepare part of the meal with the kids?
or do it when you have the energy for it?

MrsCristoforou · 04/02/2026 22:38

Do you have a freezer? My best prep advice often centres round that. I make a massive batch of concentrated tomato sauce with veggies and freeze it in big silicone ice cube trays. Then I defrost them as needed for soup, a pasta sauce, sauce for patatas bravas or to go on top of fish etc.

I always have frozen spinach, green beans and peas in, plus little gyoza dumplings. Then I can always make a quick veg soup, or a ramen-type thing i.e. broth, noodles, green beans and gyoza. Maybe a boiled egg if I'm feeling fancy!

Frozen fish fillets are also very handy, especially if you have an air fryer - they cook pretty quickly.

Store cupboard-wise I would recommend you keep couscous, rice, wholemeal pasta, ramen packets, chopped toms, stock/bouillon, spy sauce, red lentils, maybe red wine/cider vinegar, seeds and nuts.

In the fridge I'd have celery, cherry tomatoes, onions, carrots, feta, halloumi, parmesan, Greek yog.

Why don't you start with a simple meal plan that looks something like this:
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Monday - Jacket potato with beans or cottage cheese
Tuesday - Homemade soup of any kind (soften onions and garlic with seasonings then add veg and stock/water inc a small chopped potato, blend once cooked and add diary if you want. Or /eave out the potato, add red lentils and don't blend.)
Wednesday - Fish fillet cooked in foil parcel in air fryer with green beans and couscous
Thursday - Eggy bread with some cherry tomatoes roasted in the air fryer
Friday - Wholemeal pasta with some veggies (back to the frozen spinach, green beans and peas!) stirred through with lemon, soft cheese, and other seasonings you like.

This way you're.not relying on ready-meals/loads of UPFs but you're also not throwing yourself into unrealistic levels of cooking from scratch.

fishtank12345 · 04/02/2026 23:24

Thank you all that is a good idea about tray bakes and frozen veg.

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InfoSecInTheCity · 04/02/2026 23:39

i use the slow cooker a lot because it is very easy and I don’t need to think about it. I buy a pack of whatever meat I like 400 or 500g pack, bag of sliced mushrooms, bag of peeled/prepped baby carrots, bag of sliced red onion, tin of tomatoes, bag of frozen sliced peppers, whatever seasoning mix I fancy I prefer spicy but have used beef or pork casserole seasoning and that works well. Empty ingredients into slow cooker, put on low and forget about it for 6-8 hrs till you’re ready to eat. It makes 4 good sized portions, is filling enough on its own but can be served with a steamfresh bag of veg that you just microwave. It’s full of veg, low carb, low calorie, tasty food that overall requires less than 5 mins work.

fishtank12345 · 04/02/2026 23:41

InfoSecInTheCity · 04/02/2026 23:39

i use the slow cooker a lot because it is very easy and I don’t need to think about it. I buy a pack of whatever meat I like 400 or 500g pack, bag of sliced mushrooms, bag of peeled/prepped baby carrots, bag of sliced red onion, tin of tomatoes, bag of frozen sliced peppers, whatever seasoning mix I fancy I prefer spicy but have used beef or pork casserole seasoning and that works well. Empty ingredients into slow cooker, put on low and forget about it for 6-8 hrs till you’re ready to eat. It makes 4 good sized portions, is filling enough on its own but can be served with a steamfresh bag of veg that you just microwave. It’s full of veg, low carb, low calorie, tasty food that overall requires less than 5 mins work.

oh yum, have a slow cooker that has never been used... need to get on it. Thanks.

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PuzzlingRecluse · 04/02/2026 23:47

Hi I’ve just started using meal plans from ‘beat the budget’ like you I’m exhausted, DS with ASD & I’m a single mom.

I’ve found meal prepping using her plans have made a big difference to me, it’s helping me to eat better. She has an account on Facebook as well as webpages (I joined for a month to download the plans) here’s the link if helpful https://beatthebudget.com/

anotheruser345 · 04/02/2026 23:50

Something like chat gpt may help here. You can ask for meal prep options, lazy options that are also nutritious and can even give it a list of ingredients and say make me an easy meal plan you can even then ask it to give you a shopping list for what to buy.

I have poor health and chronic pain and am also trying to lose weight and I use this to help me meal plan and make life easier. When I really cant do anything my go to is some supermarkets do healthier microwave meals (there is so much high protein and lower carb options lately with the rise in people wanting high protein) or I buy ready prepped salads or the trays of ready to roast veg and throw that in the oven with some lightly dusted fish or something similar.

I also use YouTube, put in things like low carb meal prep or easy meal prep and you can find great ideas where you spend an hour or two and you then make 5 days worth of food. I watched a video recently where someone spent 6 hours and made a months worth of meals and had it all in the freezer ready to go. I personally wouldn't have the energy to do 6 hours all in a day but it's great for getting ideas for some easy options to meal prep in a large batch, then portion out and freeze and then its just throw in the oven or microwave.

BlueBlueCowWondering · 05/02/2026 09:01

Would it help to let us know what your dc eat, then we could possibly suggest how to create a meal plan for you around that? Unless they're too restricted already.
But you've had some good ideas upthread already so I hope your planning goes well Flowers

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