Please!!!!!
Did A Karmel with my 3 (4 year old twins and a 3 year old), always given massive amounts of fruit and veg, healthy diet not much meat etc. DP and I are adventurous eaters, love food etc.
2 of the dc eat like us, most things, one of the twins is really fussy. We always eat together and I never serve any alternatives if it isn't eaten we don't make a fuss but they go hungry. Fussy twin goes to bed hungry I'm sure most nights
Anyway although the fussy twin eats realatively healthy food he won't try anything new,loves junk(no idea why as he doesn't get it that often) and refuses anything green. Consequently we're now down to peas and sweetcorn on the veg front (peas are rapidly travelling onto the yuk list too).
Some days he loves any fruit, other days something is temporarily dis-liked. The other 2 now and again go through phases when a fruit or veg is temporarily dis-liked. So when I serve meals you can guarantee one of them leaves one of the veg/fruit.
The upshot is although I always serve 5 a day most days I'm starting to realise they never actually eat 5, especially fussy twin (we never call him fussy btw I'm just using it for speed on here).
So those of you with 5 a day eating kids how on earth do you manage it?????