Bozza you know what? I totally agree with you. I think I've been deluded for too long and put off giving the kids (well DS anyway) enough "adult" food.
Well in fairness DS has had a pretty bad cow's milk and gluten allergy since he was weaned, so it was necessary for me to make his meals different to ours 90% of the time. Still, there's no real reason to make him special "todder meals" I suppose. We do try to eat together at weekends and usually it goes reasonably well, with him eating whatever we eat (if he's hungry).
Thankfully now DS can eat gluten, so at least half the time he can prob have what we would normally have.
So, my plan for the following week is to make a bit more of whatever DH and I are having at dinner, save it, and give it for dinner to DS and DD the following day. That way I don't have to cook twice each day (phew).
Risks are: DS is reluctant to eat new things (even though he enthusiastically ate a wide variety up till he was 1). Guess it's just the 2's making him more picky. It will be tough to insist that he eats either "this or nothing" but deep down I do know he does truly eat if he is hungry so I shouldn't worry. He's on 91st centile for height and weight so that's not a worry either.
As for DD, she is totally adventurous and at 10mo often astounds me with what she attempts to consume with her two wee teeth. I'll offer our dinner from the previous day to her too, but expect to back up with purees for now as she's just too slow with regular food for now.
Let's hope this works. I would love to do away with the three-meals-for-four-people deal I'm running at the moment!!!
(btw we used to do salads for dinner sometimes, with tuna & egg, or grilled chicken or steak - I guess salad doesn't really translate as leftovers tho )
is it too late to do baby led weaning at 2 yr old?