We recently had my 40th in a holiday house, just immediate family, so 5 of us. To be fair, we've been there before so knew it was well equipped, but we had:
Champagne, fresh seafood (coastal place), pata negra, and very nice charcuterie from the Italian deli
3 roast ribs of beef from our amazing butcher who grows his own meat. Being unsure of ovens etc, a whole fillet wrapped in prosciutto or similar could be easier than rib roast.
Dessert was a salted caramel chocolate tart from a patisserie that we brought with us
Very nice cheese and crackers
All actually very easy, and very very 'treaty' and completely delicious, wouldn't change a thing!. With some nice wine it was perfect. We took the beef, charcuterie, tart and cheese with us, and bought everything else there, pretty remote place 3 hours from a major city but great supermarket and seafood, and pretty 'foodie'. Definitely consider shopping, what's there, and what's easier to take with you.