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What to feed in-laws for lunch?

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VintedoreBay · 19/03/2024 11:15

My in-laws are coming later this week to see their DGC (3 and 10m). I take the kids to a playgroup all morning every week on the day they'll be coming to visit and we will get home pretty much as in-laws arrive. DH arranged the visit with in-laws knowing all this and also he is conveniently away with work (ha!).

They'll be here for lunch and I've no idea what to cook for us all that's a bit better than beans on toast or scrambled eggs or cheese sandwiches (because they won't eat those options).

Last time I did slow cooked pulled pork so don't want to do that again, and before that I did Bolognese but got told mine was "ooh how very continental" because I shoved in extra veg (you know, for the kids!)

Any suggestions?! What do you serve your in-laws when they visit for lunch?

Something quick and simple please!!

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Lifebeganat50 · 19/03/2024 12:24

Funderthighs · 19/03/2024 11:26

Home-made soup & cheese scones. Make the soup & scone mix in advance. Heat the soup in the microwave & bake the scones in the oven. (They take 15 mins).

Can I come to yours for lunch please😁

TruthThatsHardAsSteel · 19/03/2024 12:24

VintedoreBay · 19/03/2024 11:22

Not sure how comfortable I feel with leaving the oven on while we're out!

Do others do this?

No!

GrumpyPanda · 19/03/2024 12:28

crumblingschools · 19/03/2024 11:26

Can your DH cook something that can be heated up when in-laws turn up?

Nails it.

caringcarer · 19/03/2024 12:30

I'd make a homemade lasagne the Evening before and just pop it into the oven and offer them garlic bread and salad as most people like that. I don't but most do.

Heckythump1 · 19/03/2024 12:34

I'd do a sort of afternoon tea type affair, things you can prepare in advance like sandwiches, cheese scones, sausage rolls, cakes etc

SheilaFentiman · 19/03/2024 12:38

FFS, don’t make a quiche if you are doing that. Buy one!

Hedgerow2 · 19/03/2024 12:39

Most importantly - when do they eat their main meal of the day? We have ours on an evening and I'd hate to be presented with something substantial at lunchtime.

I'd go for home made soup with some nice bread. I'd also offer cheese and biscuits, fruit and/or some nice cake in case anyone is still hungry.

SheilaFentiman · 19/03/2024 12:39

If spag Bol works for you, just do that again and ignore comments

Araminta1003 · 19/03/2024 12:42

I would precook a roast chicken in the morning for an hour and have it cold with baby potatoes and salad. I always just shove it in the oven with potatoes, sweet potatoes and carrots and kids can have some too

Or Camembert in the oven for 35 minutes with chutney, baguette and salad? That will be nice and continental…

Baldieheid · 19/03/2024 12:46

Soup and nice bread (soup can be made and left in slow cooker all morning), with a few nice bits of cheese, some cold meat, pickles and a couple of salads.

Or if you need to serve a "proper meal", I'd make a shepherds pie (or cottage pie) the night before and reheat that. Steam some green beans and brocolli to go with it from frozen and bobs your uncle.

Raggeo · 19/03/2024 12:50

Pesto pasta is usually my emergency go to for visitors. Either make the pesto in advance or just use a jar. I usually just chuck in whatever veg I have, or frozen peas/corn if I'm running low. Will add cooked chicken if I have or if not I've always got tins of tuna. I use one pot so it's easy to tidy up after and can be served in less than 30minutes.

mrsbyers · 19/03/2024 12:52

Tomato soup and cheese toasties

soggyfields · 19/03/2024 12:55

Buy a quiche and open a bagged salad. Fresh bread and butter. Fruit.

VintedoreBay · 19/03/2024 12:55

Funderthighs · 19/03/2024 11:26

Home-made soup & cheese scones. Make the soup & scone mix in advance. Heat the soup in the microwave & bake the scones in the oven. (They take 15 mins).

Havw you got an easy scone recipe please? Like this idea

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VintedoreBay · 19/03/2024 12:57

Hedgerow2 · 19/03/2024 12:39

Most importantly - when do they eat their main meal of the day? We have ours on an evening and I'd hate to be presented with something substantial at lunchtime.

I'd go for home made soup with some nice bread. I'd also offer cheese and biscuits, fruit and/or some nice cake in case anyone is still hungry.

My eldest is used to eating a bigger meal at lunch time at nursery so, depending what we're up to, we do the same at home. Youngest tends to eat more at lunch time, too.

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Hedgerow2 · 19/03/2024 12:59

@VintedoreBay - I was thinking more of when your in laws eat their main meal!

VintedoreBay · 19/03/2024 12:59

SugarMitts · 19/03/2024 12:21

Can’t they bring lunch with them?
Are you not very close to them? It all sounds oddly formal

It's really not formal. It's just lunch 😂

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VintedoreBay · 19/03/2024 13:01

Hedgerow2 · 19/03/2024 12:59

@VintedoreBay - I was thinking more of when your in laws eat their main meal!

Oops sorry misunderstood. They don't always eat in the evening, sometimes not at all! 🥴

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VintedoreBay · 19/03/2024 13:02

crumblingschools · 19/03/2024 11:26

Can your DH cook something that can be heated up when in-laws turn up?

If he was here he would. But he's not.

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ThisGoldHedgehog · 19/03/2024 13:03

Clevs · 19/03/2024 11:30

I wouldn't want a cooked meal at lunchtime. Spag bol, shepherds pie etc are more suited for teatime.

For lunch I'd want something lighter like sandwiches, wraps, jacket potato, omelette, quiche & salad etc.

This is interesting. How is a jacket potato ‘lighter’ than spaghetti?

shearwater2 · 19/03/2024 13:41

Just get posh indoor picnic/antipasti type stuff from M&S or something to shove in the oven with a salad. No-one expects a big home cooked meal for a weekday lunch.

shearwater2 · 19/03/2024 13:47

Though I have to say one time DD2 was little and I was still breastfeeding and had got back into running regularly again, MIL invited me over for lunch and I got the sum of one egg scrambled on one slice of toast. I was ravenous and it barely touched the sides, in fact it just made me feel more hungry and rather frustrated.

I had to have my actual lunch when I got home, cheers for the starter.

VintedoreBay · 19/03/2024 13:52

shearwater2 · 19/03/2024 13:41

Just get posh indoor picnic/antipasti type stuff from M&S or something to shove in the oven with a salad. No-one expects a big home cooked meal for a weekday lunch.

Edited

I don't have a car to drive to M&S because DH has it for his work trip and it's well out the way unfortunately! 🙈

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mrssunshinexxx · 19/03/2024 13:52

Get a nice quiche from a bakery - plus nice salad / potato salad

Funderthighs · 19/03/2024 13:53

VintedoreBay · 19/03/2024 12:55

Havw you got an easy scone recipe please? Like this idea

I use the BBC Good Food one, available online. I never roll/cut them though. I make two “rounds” of the mixture on a baking tray & slightly flatten them. Then I cut them almost through into 4 pieces with a sharp knife. I wet the blade first.

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