I'm actually quite used to catering a lunch for large family but this is child's partners family and I feel more nervous and want to get it right. 4 vegetarian, the rest meat eaters that appreciate a good meat dish. I'm away until the day before the occasion so had thought of making lasagnas so it was all ready and I could socialise etc however I'm worried that's a bit boring/ 1970's and the mixture of lasagnes don't go : beef/ veg/ salmon and spinach. I could do pulled pork/ chilli / veg pulled pork on the day but I'm not sure. I do curries for family but spice level is very personal, does anyone have any suggestions I'm going round in circles.