Have offered to host reunion for 4 school friends with babies and toddlers. Thought I would do something simple but hopefully stylish so I don't look completely incapable as I flap around after my baby and toddler. Our meal times are usually chaotic b ut I would love to appear calm and in control tomorrow. As we're approaching the festive season I thought I'd try a Panetone and mincemeat dessert I've seen in Nigel Slaters book but I've no idea what to do for the main meal. Any ideas? Even sandwiches would be ok but I'd like ideas for something a bit more exciting than cheese and pickle?