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Mama1980 · 02/06/2021 15:46

Hi, please give me your recipes for filling up a unfillable teen boy. My ds1 is 13 and constantly hungry, he's stick thin, very active but underweight. Because he was a micro preemie he has yearly dr checks and this morning the dr basically said he's great but in the underweight category.....he eats me out of house and home! But he said it's nothing to worry about but some more calories would be good considering how active he is.
Typical day he will eat
Breakfast 2 weetabix, banana and seeds (he usually goes for a run about an hour later) smoothie
Whole grain toast and fruit when he gets back
Mid morning snack can be anything plantain chips are a current favourite.
Lunch usually something like a large couscous salad, eggs and cheese. Or three bean salad and tofu.
Afternoon fruit and yoghurt, often more toast.
Dinner two portions of whatever were eating. So tonight it's veggie bolognese, pasta with carrots and garlic bread. Sometimes he will have more fruit, sometimes biscuits and peanuts.
Evening he will have porridge, eggs and beans, crumpets.....something like that for supper.

Any ideas where he can squash in some more calories?
I only cook with full fat stuff, no reduced sugar etc I'm vegan but he isn't. He doesn't like fizzy drinks but does have water, fruit juice and milk.

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SpringBluebellWoods · 03/06/2021 17:32

I went to a lecture about feeding teenage athletes, and the advice there was to make sure each snack is a mini meal, so at least two (ideally all of) protein, carbs, fruit/veg. Ideas were things like gold top banana milkshake with peanut butter, homemade flapjacks made with banana / apple puree / peanut butter / oats etc.

I’ve been making rice pudding with gold top milk recently (no added sugar, sometimes raisins but often just a sprinkle of nutmeg), and that seems to work as an after school snack. Would that be too sweet for him?

LoveFall · 03/06/2021 18:24

I make bran type muffins sweetened with dates and bananas. The recipe is here:

www.heynutritionlady.com/no-sugar-banana-bran-muffins/

They are really good and freeze beautifully. I freeze them in a ziplock bag and take them out as needed. 40 seconds in the microwave. I make 2 dozen with the recipe instead of only a dozen and find them big enough for a snack.

I buy pitted and already chopped dates online.

It's one of those recipes that make me feel like a baking genius.

MackenCheese · 03/06/2021 18:46

My ds13 is also stick thin. He starts the day with 4 weetabix or 4 shredded wheat plus fruit, or yoghurt.

BlueCowWonders · 03/06/2021 19:20

Omelettes as a snack? He can pile up the fillings depending on what leftovers are in the fridge.

Mama1980 · 03/06/2021 20:45

Thanks, he likes porridge so that would work and I've saved that recipe thanks it looks great.

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Mama1980 · 03/06/2021 20:46

He has no restriction on breakfast but doesn't like to eat much more than that before his run. He eats a second breakfast when he gets back. Or on non run days he eats eggs/veggie bacon/hash browns etc.

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ChrissyHynde · 03/06/2021 20:55

@cookiecreampie

His diet sounds healthy but doesn't seem enough calories. Nothing wrong with a bit of stodge to feed a growing teen boy. Mine has pies, burgers and pizza in his diet alongside vegetables and more balanced meals.
My DS eats well with us , but in between fills up with stodge which I used to feel guilty about but he seems to be getting taller every day and is on the slim side
wherewildflowersgrow · 04/06/2021 23:04

The diet you listed is very healthy, but could equally be used by slimming world. It needs more fats, nuts, meat and oily fish.

wherewildflowersgrow · 04/06/2021 23:06

Mine used to eat salmon and mayonnaise/cream cheese pate after sport, sometimes. With bread or biscuits . That's calorific. Make it in a food processor.

RhubarbCustardy · 04/06/2021 23:22

One suggestion if you use white rice then change it to brown as fills you up for longer as slower release.

UntilYourNextHairBrainedScheme · 04/06/2021 23:37

RhubarbCustardy that's a weight loss strategy though - this child is under not over weight and already somewhat fixated on healthy or weightloss oriented eating.

UntilYourNextHairBrainedScheme · 04/06/2021 23:44

Mama1980 how's your son's growth? Is he below average height as well as below average weight? I do think it makes a massive difference here. Is this 13 year old male child5 foot ten and 8 stone? Or a tiny 5 foot 2 and 6 stone? He should be bigger than his mother at this point - is he.

AdaColeman · 04/06/2021 23:48

Add soup as a first course to dinner, especially thick lentil or bean recipes. Serve with bread and butter.
Soup would also be a useful option for a quick snack though the day, a mug for elevenses for example.

As he's not keen on cakes, he might like rice pudding made with gold top milk, it needn't be very sweet. Or fruit fools made with cream & custard and unsweetened fruit purée. A cheese board instead of pudding would be good too.

Mama1980 · 05/06/2021 09:34

Thanks everyone. To answer a couple of questions, dr is happy with his health his muscle tone, and growth is perfect. He could just use a bit more weight. He's taller than me - to his delight - and is 5'6"
Dr categorically said not to promote the eating of junk lol nor discourage his approach to fitness and health.
There are some great ideas here thanks, we made the muffins and he ate extra avocados yesterday. He is constantly eating so if we can up the calories of those snacks hopefully the weight will creep on.

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Mama1980 · 05/06/2021 09:35

Cheese board is also a brilliant idea - he loves cheese and always likes to try different cheeses.

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Mama1980 · 05/06/2021 09:37

Sorry again to add his height is above average so no issue with his growth - he's an ex micro preemie so his growth is still monitored once a year as is his heart health, eyes, bone density and general fitness.....all of which came back as excellent.

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UntilYourNextHairBrainedScheme · 05/06/2021 10:16

That's great Mama1980 - if his height etc is on track then you probably wouldn't even know he was under weight if he wasn't having the extra check ups, and lots of teens are skinny naturally. As height is on track he won't be under nourished really.

JHMJHM · 05/06/2021 22:09

This fetishising of teenage boys eating habits is wierd. Competitive. 4 biscuits 8 apples a billion weight of yoghurt who gives a fuck

lljkk · 05/06/2021 22:17

Are you in UK, OP?

My 13yo DS is 5'1" tall. DS cycles an hour every school day, plus school PE, plus the odd 50 mile cycle ride (sportive, race) & other activity. Park-run whenever that starts again. I'm sure his calorie intake is no more than 2000/day. 1600/d wouldn't surprise me. Not underweight.

titchy · 05/06/2021 22:19

@JHMJHM

This fetishising of teenage boys eating habits is wierd. Competitive. 4 biscuits 8 apples a billion weight of yoghurt who gives a fuck
Well clearly you seeing as you bothered to post! As an aside, did you really mean 'fetishising'? What a strange word to use in this context...
JHMJHM · 05/06/2021 22:19

Really just stop. It is totally odd. Stop micro managing your kids weight.

JHMJHM · 05/06/2021 22:22

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JHMJHM · 05/06/2021 22:25

Just find it odd that there are so many frothy posts about boys eating. Quite tedious and wierd!

lljkk · 05/06/2021 22:29

just got a breakdown of today from 13yo DS ...
~45 minutes cycling (12 miles, mostly off road)

bowl porridge with FF milk & some sugar
Sainsbury's ssg roll, brioche roll with chocolate
4 biscuits
5 roast potato pieces, mixed vegetables, veggie 'meatballs'
cup of FF milk

I doubt that scraped past 1600. My 6'1 sons inhale their food but still don't touch close to 4k avg/day

lljkk · 05/06/2021 22:32

er... calm down?

4k/day surprised me, outside my experience as a parent.

DH & I had a huge appetites when we were young. Maybe we could hit 4k kcal needs. Esp. on a day when we cycled 100k+. But my boys not like that at all. Not as an average.