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The Wisdom of Mothers in Law

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BlueberryPancake · 11/10/2007 20:38

My MIL is really nice, and she minds her own business. She wouldn't offer advice unless I'd ask.

DS1 is 2 and he has always been a fussy eater, very small portions, sometimes nothing at all, and it was driving me mad. I asked my MIL what she would do and what I have been doing wrong, and it bloddy worked, she was right:

  • NO snacks, at all, except fruit, at set times (10.30 and 3.30)
  • limit liquid (water only, juice with meal, milk after breakfast, lunch and at bedtime only)
  • offer small portion of same food as we eat (not too much on his plate, it's a bit overwhelming), and always eat at the table with us
  • make no fuss if he doesn't eat, but never offer anything different.
  • Praise only a little bit if he eats, but no fussing.

After 2 days, DS is eating really well. He had veg and chicken curry tonight, with rice, he eat all that was on his plate, and devoured a pear for pud.

Just thought I'd share her pearls of wisdom with you gals.

BP xx

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bossybritches · 11/10/2007 21:52

nice one BP glad it worked so well- is MIL now feeling suitably smug ??

(with every reason I hasten to add!)

You are very lucky to have a MIL like that!

chipmonkeyPumpkinNorks · 11/10/2007 22:10

at BP's MIL!

NineUnlikelyTales · 11/10/2007 22:15

Oh and I thought this was going to be a MIL bashing thread

chipmonkeyPumpkinNorks · 11/10/2007 23:52

notice how the nice MIL thread is strangely quiet!

LadyOfTheFlowers · 11/10/2007 23:54

Me too thought it would be MIL bashing.....
Gutted.

BlueberryPancake · 12/10/2007 22:31

We could easily turn this into a bashing session. When DS1 was 3 months old she gave me a book on how to get your child to read by the age of 3 yo. Need I say more.

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bossybritches · 14/10/2007 20:18

Oooh let me have a bash!!

MIL always INSISTS whenever she invites us round for lunch on doing quite fancy grown-up stuff which is delicious but wasted on my fussy plain-eating two. They eat well but from a limited menu. We are gradually broadening the horizons & DD2 is getting quite brave & will at least TRY new stuff. Personally I feel a family sociable occasion is not the time to try & introduce new stuff or rather make a fuss if nothing is eaten. DD1(12)is acutely shy & just goes like a rabbit in the headlights when MIL starts on at her "what's wrong....? don't you LIKE it? What a pity oh well have some bread. I thought EVERYBODY liked curry/fancy salads/ What's the matter cat got your tongue?" etc etc.

I always sit DD1 near me & as far away from MIL as poss if there are a few of us she can hide! It also stops me having to make polite conversation when I'd rather deck the old witch!!

(sorry Op hijacked the thread)

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