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Daughter wants to go vegetarian

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Acdmm41 · 03/08/2020 19:21

My DD (11) has just told me she wants to go vegetarian and I have a few ideas of how to change up our usual meals but any ideas would be great. My DS and I are happy to eat vegetarian too most of the time.

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Ricekrispie22 · 03/08/2020 19:55

When it comes to cooking for vegetarians and meat-eaters at the same time, there are a few different ways you can do it. The route you choose to go down will probably depend on what sort of meal you’re making.

The first options is to cook vegetarian side dishes, then just serve a different protein for the vegetarians and meat-eaters. You’ll all be eating mostly the same, so there won’t be too many additional pans to wash. I know a lot of vegetarians aren’t fond of meat substitutes, but they’re really useful for this kind of meal. Veggie sausages, soya ‘chicken’ nuggets, grilled Quorn ‘steaks’ – they can all be used as one-for-one replacements for their meaty equivalents.
I’d do this for roast dinners, burgers, hot dogs, bangers and mash.

Another option is to cook a vegetarian meal, and then scatter some kind of meat or fish on top for those who want it. I sometimes find it helpful to do a roast/pulled chicken or roast/pulled pork once a week so that we have some cooked meat on hand for adding in at the end. You can add pulled chicken right at the end to: enchiladas, fajitas and stuffed peppers. Roast chicken can be added at the end to a chickpea and couscous salad or tagine. I add cooked pork at the end to dishes like curries and stir fries. It's also useful to have bacon lardons for frying and adding right at the end to egg fried rice, carbonara, risotto and lentil casserole.
Make a bunch of beef meatballs and keep them in the freezer, so that a veggie tomato sauce for pasta can get a beefy boost when needed. Also, lamb meatballs are great to throw into a chickpea and vegetable tagine over some couscous, or can be part of a tapas or mezze dinner.

Another option is to use two separate pans, which might sound like the equivalent of making two separate meals, but it’s not! If you’re making a stew or casserole, you can make the exact same thing in two different pans, with barely any extra effort. Chop all your veg, and rather than dumping them into one pan, separate them into two. All the other ingredients can be added to both pans, with meat added to one, and some kind of veggie protein added to the other. Sure, you’ll have two pans to wash instead of one, but there’s otherwise the same amount of prep work and cooking time. It's easy to make two small toad in the holes from one batter mix and just use different sausages. This oven-baked frittata is a good veggie dish if you fry the bacon separately and use two separate oven dishes, leaving the bacon out of one of them www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/3077673/bacon-and-ricotta-ovenbaked-frittata It’s worth making a big batch of these kinds of meals. By the time you’ve started prepping, it’s not really any extra effort to make a larger amount. Stews and soups freeze really well, so you can freeze any leftovers in portions, to make for a quick and easy dinner another night.

Acdmm41 · 03/08/2020 20:29

Thank you, loads of great ideas 😀

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yomellamoHelly · 03/08/2020 20:54

Ratatouille is a good one. You can do lamb chops on the side.. Some ciabatta to pad it out.
Fajitas with veggies, haloumi, choice of meat and dips. Everyone then gets to pick what they want.
Dals are easy, with any number of veg.
Couscous with Tzatziki.
Pies with steamed ved (dd has a veggie one).
Minestrone missing the bacon (sep pan).
Chilli con carne with beans rather than meat.
Aubergine parmigiana.
Veggie burgers.
Falafel and salad.
Pizzas (with veggie option)

Sure there are many more. I just worry about getting enough calories into ds.

cameocat · 03/08/2020 21:00

I separate things out a lot eg a risotto base or curry sauce then add meat or veggies (DH and ds like meat), DD is the veggie and I'd happily not eat meat again. Burgers are easy to make veggie or not. For lunches I'll do couscous, halloumi, salad etc with some cold meats for the boys. Veggie slow cooker chilli with black beans is a particular favourite with either rice or wraps and creme fraiche.

I make a lot of soups as they all like that and it is quick and easy.

I find Sainsbury's does particularly good veggie things (mostly frozen).

If your DD is serious do warn her about the hidden gelatine in sweets and marshmallows.

I do make DD have some vitamins that contain fish oil (I ordered them by mistake) as she's still growing. That is the only thing she conceded to. She was 12 when she started. Older DD followed suit shortly after and is now vegan but that tied in with her moving out thank goodness! Grin

cameocat · 03/08/2020 21:05

Oh yes dal and falafels very popular with us too!

BrieAndChilli · 03/08/2020 21:13

It’s a bit trial and error at first. DD doesn’t like burgers etc that are trying to pretend to be real burgers and prefers veg burgers that are actual veg rather than meat substitute. Took us a few tries to find sausages that she liked.

Like others above because I have 2 boys that are avid meat eaters (and veg dodgers) I do have to cook 2 different meals for most meals. Me and DH flip between meat and veggie.

So either cook a veggie main eg pasta or risotto and then add the meat on the side
Cook DD a completely different thing if it’s something that can’t be adjusted eg pork chops etc
Or cook 2 completely different things eg me, DH and DD like Thai so I will make a veggie Thai green curry. Boys don’t like Thai so I do them a chicken korma.

One thing that I have found useful is when making for example bolagnaise - I make a large batch of veggie one and portion it up for the freezer. Likewise I make double of the meat. Means that I then have easy meals to defrost and heat up. Or if making a meat bolagnaise or chilli etc I can just take portion out the freezer for DD instead of having to cook 2 things every single time.

Tatapie · 03/08/2020 23:12

I do all 3 of @Ricekrispie22 methods. I find chorizo fried off in a small pan and added to vege risotto or pasta satisfies the meat eaters. My DD likes the birds eye green cuisine range as well as quorn and I keep a few tins / pouches of veggie chilli / daal on standby. It's been good for us as we all eat vegetarian once or twice a week eg curry or pasta usually. I don't like quorn tho!

Acdmm41 · 04/08/2020 11:57

Thanks all, lots to try 😀

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gamerchick · 04/08/2020 11:59

Can she get involved with the cooking? Never too early to learn if she wants to eat a particular way. It'll help her learn about hidden ingredients and what to look out for.

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