Captain
For the tofu, wrap it in a tea towel and press it between two plates with weights (tins of chickpeas in this house!) on, for a couple of hours at least.
On a shallow plate mix oil, soy sauce, five spice powder and sesame seeds. Dip tofu slices in on both sides, then put on a baking tray and stick in the oven until crispy.
Other than that, I just use lots of mixed vege (beansprouts, bamboo shoots from a tin, baby corn, sugar snaps, peppers, pak choy, whatever) fried up, and then a paste and coconut milk. You can make the paste but I often cheat and use this one.
If making my own (rare, these days!) I use onion, garlic, lemon grass, chillis, lime juice, ginger and a shedload of coriander, and blitz it in the food processor.