You know Carla, mine used to be just like that, then over the last couple of years I have said they can come and help me...involving chopping up vegetables, licking bowl of chocolate bun mixture and putting garlic under chicken skin....have offered them with a treat if they help...like I'll play with them, read a story or go to playground and be their troll, usually works...neither of mine are that helpful but try and make cooking fun, get 2 chairs in, the getto blaster with their choice of music and they get to measure, mix the ingredients, please let me know how you get on, not all children like cooking, they are all different,fingers crossed! as most children like to help