very interesting twiglett, I was surprised to note that skimmed milk had slightly more calcium than full fat milk.
Evita, what type of milk shake did u use? My dd is on an awful formula milk and I have to put crusha milk shake syrup in it, approx 1 tsp, banana flavour. She also eats the soya deserts and doesn't like the chocolate flavour, can u imagine? Why not try other flavours, my dd liked the banana one straight away, try it in the formula milk.
Does she like cheese spread? that is supposed to be calcuim enriched, "so they say"
Dinasaur mentioned chocolate spread in one of my threads. when i went to the supermarket i noticed some had vitamins in and were calcuim enriched too. anyway dd was not a big fan of it and will have some now and then on a pancake, toast etc. I, on the other hand really love it.
I know how stressful it is, I go through a similar thing, she rejects something different each week.
Hang in there, maybe try ang get more cheese down her if she likes that, my dd likes edam cheese slices, nice and mellow.