There are so many good things to do with an aubergine. I usually cut them into chunks and roast with a tiny bit of oil for about 45 mins at 170C when I happen to have the oven on within the couple of days before I want to use it which gets rid of any excess moisture without having to use salt.
This is a recipe from Ottolenghi (my page pulled out of the Guardian Weekend magazine on Nov 8 2008 is now in tatters) which was actually for okra. DH hates okra - he says they are full of snot - so I tried it with aubergines and it is amazing.
Serves 4:
30g fresh red chillis
4g dried red chillis (it's quite hot, and if you might want to make with less and see what you think)
100g shallot (I never have these, so just use onion)
1 clove garlic
1/2 tsp salt
Vegetable oil
Blend the above into a paste (recipe says 130ml oil, I just pour in about a tbsp)
Fry in a little oil for about 10 mins, stirring frequently, by which time it should be dark red.
Mix a generous tsp of tamarind paste with a little boiling water and 1 tbsp sugar.
Add into the pan, chuck in the aubergine (the above recipe says it's for 600g okra, I would use an aubergine per person), add a bit more water so that you can cook the aubergine in it until soft (time taken depends on whether it's going in raw or roasted).
Serve with some basmati - if you can be bothered it is ace with rice cooked by the absorption method with coconut milk in place of half the water plus thin slices of ginger and some kaffir lime leaves, but I rarely bother with that.
It is my favourite dinner. A friend who doesn't like very hot food makes it but with the coconut milk stirred into the aubergines and that is good (but not as good) too.