my ds is just coming up 14 months old and used to be a great eater, i used to be so proud that he ate really well. now though i have been trying to get him off the baby jars and on to real food and its going pear shaped fast! it either ends up on the floor or he just refuses to eat it. he will eat fruit and veg and the like but not in the amounts that fill him up. any hints to get him to eat?